FR: Day Game break through....

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I've been experimenting with day game for a while now, kind of rudderless, not really having read too much material about it, but I've been trying to learn its intricacies through experience. The rhythm is deathly slow compared to night game. I've gotten SNL in night game, and with any progress in night game there is always tons of energy, and escalation is fast and fluid.

I'm trying to accustom myself to this slower pacing, taking a lot of tips from Bull Run and my interpretation of the kind of prolonged comfort he always describes on here (which has worked a charm with at least one other girl in the past). I've cast my line and closed a few numbers; only this week do I feel like I may have gotten a legitimate bite.

Here's the story. I met her at a dog park where I have been trying out most of my day game routines since April. I think it was even way back in April when I #closed this one. Nothing much came out of it, except for a little bit of texting, and a casually running into her at the same park a couple time. I don't remember how seriously I tried to pursue a day 2 at that time, but in June that I got my first strong IOI. She texted me on a Friday night telling me I should come out to a party (her friend who was throwing it was coincidentally an acquaintance of mine). I had a new cell, and had lost her number, so I didn't recognize her, which she seemed very upset about. I also remember her possibly being drunk. She was very eager to have me come over if I remember correct. I intended to go to this party, but the logistics of that evening were weird, so I passed.

No contact for a while after that. I sent her a text three weeks ago and we chit chatted about mindless bullshit. Saw her the next week at the park hurriedly on her way out, and she hugged and kissed me. I texted her that Friday with intentions of setting up a day 2. Before I got into it (in a response immediately following her last one) she said we should hang out next weekend (this one coming up). I told her my plans for the evening, and she told me she was hanging out with her cousins.

We met up that night at a bar where I was drinking with 2 friends, and she drunkenly texted me for directions, not to mention that she was very eager to just stop in and say hi. The girls were on their way to a concert, and they already had tickets paid for, but we chatted for a while as one of them finished a beer. The interaction was short but went well.

Today she sent me an out of the blue text and we had a bit of a back and forth, but I did not talk about setting up a day 3 yet. It seems like I should pounce upon her previous offer to hang out this weekend and I intend to, but I'm trying to make sure the situation is right. My only worries (if any) is that the pace has been really slow up to now. Would a sudden speed up in escalation ruin things? I feel that if I get her out somewhere at night, it'd be no different than any other date culled through run of the mill night game, but maybe I'm wrong. Should I continue to proceed cautiously?

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Would a sudden speed up in escalation ruin things?

No, this is precisely what is needed.


I feel that if I get her out somewhere at night, it'd be no different than any other date culled through run of the mill night game, but maybe I'm wrong. Should I continue to proceed cautiously?

I wouldn't proceed with caution. You have done that for the last few months. This has been primed long enough. It is yours to lose though. So just be a cool cat when you are out with her next and you are gold.

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I second PC's take...

Get her out, turn up the heat, you have way more comfort than is necessary to proceed without it being creepy.

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What dog park are you going to that you find attractive ladies? I go to the white rock lake dog park and I have yet to see an attractive lady who was not very obviously with her boyfriend.

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If I'm understanding this right, you #closed her in April, she texted you out of the blue in June, she went to a bar to see you in July, she texted you today out of the blue, and now you're wondering if you should proceed cautiously?

My take is you got her chasing you without really doing anything to reciprocate. If you don't let her catch you soon, she'll feel rejected and find someone else to chase.

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[QUOTE=Lion;36828]What dog park are you going to that you find attractive ladies? I go to the white rock lake dog park and I have yet to see an attractive lady who was not very obviously with her boyfriend.[/QUOTE]

They just opened some sick dog park near my old house. I wonder if it is any good. It is near million dollar houses. Maybe you can find a sugar momma? Or daughter of some Tycoon.

On Keller springs just west of Preston on North side of road.