Something a little different............

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This field report doesn't quite fit the typical report scenario that gets played out in some bar or party. This happened at a very different location and at the time I really wasn't trying to game this girl. In fact I rarely try and game any girl anymore. I do my best to just be ME. Just like BullRun's quote says: "they want you for who you are".

Its about becoming a man of value and once you are there and convey that, you won't need "game" to attract women.

Ok, since I think there are some valuable lessons for the aspiring PUA's I am going to start this story from the very beginning almost one year ago.

So there I was......it was Halloween 2008 and I showed up at costume party that some friends were attending. At this time I did not know the hostess. Later in the evening I introduced myself to the hostess(HBCougar) and we sat down for a lenghty chat towards the end of the night. I totally laid down the cocky funny routine with her. I was probably a bit excessive with it. However I made sure to show this girl(HBCougar) a few glimpses that there might just be a really fantastic guy underneath all the cockiness. The discussion got pretty deep and I didn't sugarcoat any of my opinions. I wasn't there to impress her by molding myself into the perfect guy that I thought she wanted me to be. Little did I know, the fact that I wasn't sugarcoating my opinions is what ended up impressing her. (They want you for her you are!)

After a while, I picked up on the fact that my cocky demeanor mixed in with a little sweetness was working in my favor. HBCougar saw me as a challenge, stubborn, and my own man. This gave me value in her eyes. Kind of what Cougars are all about themselves! She also saw a few hints of a sweet, caring, passionate guy that she so desperately wanted to wrap her arms around. I made sure to stay elusive for had I given it all up at this point it would have most likely been "game over".

So fast forward one year to Halloween night 2009. I am at her party again. We reminisce about the conversation we had in 2008. This time when the night was nearing an end I invited her to a car race I was racing at the next day and she gladly accepted.

At this point we both knew their was some interest there, but just left it at that. Along the way to the race track I had plenty of opportunities to tease her. When stopped at a Mexican restaurant she told the waiter she wanted a "hard" taco! I took full advantage of this turning it sexual and had her laughing and red in the face in front of my entire crew.

The rest of the trip I made sure to keep busting her balls on what a pervert she was! She loved it.

When we finally made it to the race track she sat back and observed her new surroundings and all the activity that happens in the pits. I left her at our trailer and went up to register my car. While I was gone a potential sponsor I had been trying to attract showed up and wanted to talk. I was gone at the time and they ended up waiting on me for 20minutes. When I got back I did my best to promote myself to these guys in hopes they would want to sponsor my racing program. The whole time HBCougar was listening intently. After the potential sponsors walked away, HBCougar told me she was very impressed with how I conducted myself and that these guys came all the way from Arkansas to talk to me about a potential business deal. I clearly had demonstrated social value right in front of her.

Later in the evening we took to the track for a practice session. After we came in we had burnt off all the rubber on the rear tires. This is very rare to do on a dirt track so I got to checking my competitors tires. They were experiencing the same tire wear. As soon as I learned how many laps the actual race was going to be that night I knew most of us would require 2 more brand new tires.

So I took this opportunity to demonstrate some more social value and that I was a leader of men. I got all my fellow competitors together to discuss tire wear and suggested to the race director that we cut the number of laps to save everyone some money on tires. I didn't encounter any opposition and this situation the fact that I took the bull by the horns impressed the hell out of HBCougar.

I also told my competitors that I had 2 extra tires that were still in good shape if anybody needed them they just needed to stop by. Shortly after somebody stopped by and I told them they could have them and didn't owe me anything. HBCougar took notice and complimented on how considerate I was to give some tires away to a guy that could potentially use them to beat me.

Another thing that was beneficial in giving me value were my two crew guys. Throughout the night I had to wonder off by myself to look at the track or go talk to somebody. Sometimes I asked HBCougar to come along, other times I left her at our trailer. While I was gone, my crew guys which kind of took the role of a good wingman kept her entertained and talked me up in front of her until I could return.

We ended up having a real good finish and I was pretty fired up after I got out of the car. She got to witness me being very passionate and expressive after the race because I was so happy with how we ran and once again this portrayal of my personality drew her even closer. Afterwards I heard my dad telling her how challenging our season had been and it was good to end it on a high note with some success the last few races of the season. My dad telling this story the way he did showed what kind of man I was and created more attraction.

I hope this field report was a good example of what you can do to attract a girl using social proof/value. I was just being myself and did nothing different as a result of her presence. The focus of the entire night was on me, not her. I wasn't trying to impress her, it just unfolded that way naturally because I do have personal value. I also wasn't trying to put the focus on her or place her on a pedestal. Sure I flirted with her thru out the evening, but never gave her my full attention. I just kept dangling the carrot(flirting) out there every now and then to keep her attention. I used a little push/pull here as well.

Later that night after we got home I took this beautiful woman home and just as I suspected she asked me to stay the night with her. She was ready to take me back to her cougar den for full blown wild animal sex.

Well I had not officially broken things off with my girlfriend so I turned her down! ;-) Doing so created more attraction. I used the opportunity to let her know what i was about. I told her I wasn't going to cheat on my girlfriend because we had made a promise and I was sticking to that. I scored big points in doing so. It also demonstrated to HBCougar that she couldn't just use the power of pussy to get what she wanted. It might have worked on the 10guys before, but not me. Yeah I showed I was different than all the rest, and as a result stood out in the crowd of sausage that had attempted to seduce her time and time again.