over coming language barrier- importance of emotion and touch!!!

[Guest]

Just like any other city, San Antonio has its cool parts and it has parts that are plain ghetto. Well Mad Dog! 20/20 and the ghetto collide! This takes place 2 and half weeks ago.

My hispanic friends want to go out and just have fun. They invite me and I come along. They take me to this hispanic club called La Bikina( or something along the lines of it). Its on the west side of downtown. As soon as we get there we show our IDs to the guard.

We get in. I am the ONLY white guy there. And I am one of the FEW people who can speak English. Its like damn people barely spaek basic over here. Good thing I know basic spanish. Being the only white dude in the place already gives me lot of attention: both the good and the bad kind.

In any case, I am chilling with my friends and just relaxing, when I see this qute girl with 3 of her other friends. I approach.

Me: "Hey I saw you and had to come over and say hi."
Her: "No habla Ingles"
Me: " me llamo Mad Dog!"
She says her name, I cant remmember it.
In any case, I am shaking her hand but I do not let go. I channel all my intent into her and make a connection.

Me:" Donde esta?"
Her: "Monterrey"

I was feeling out of place due to the nature fo the crowd but I wanted to fuck and my intent overrulled any weirdness that I was experiencing.
Its getting very sexual between me and her. I LEAD her to a table near us and we sit down. At this point I run out of my spanish vocab. So I do not have anything other that my DICK and my BALLS!!!

I start touching her so lightly,but the nature of the touch gets more tense and more sexual. She knows whats going on. She wants it. She has no other choice.

And then the rest of the club wakes up to a realization that one dude has better game than all other chodes in there, even thought he cant speak the language. First her friends decided to destroy me. They would come up and take her away from me. Some times later I would come up to them and tear her away from them. Its was a tug of war and it was a a stalemate.

Then Hispanic guys decide that they should interfere with my dating life. And one after another they come up to me and the girl and try to take me out. And one after another they kept failing. But at some point her frineds decide to leave and take her with them. Did not get her number or email. No point. She does not understand english.

After that I was so pissed, I started working the room just to calm myself down. But every other girl there had her family with her or had her boyfriend or husband there.So even though I was social as far as fucking I did not get anywhere that night but....

GLORY!!!! I just proved to myself that emotion and touch(okay at this point I will put intent in with other emotions since intent in an a emotion) are key to human communication. Yes language is the greatest human creation but for establishing connection with a woman or with other people in general you need to COMMAND EMOTION!!!!


A lot of my friends who are in community,spend so much time worrying about "runnig out of stuff" to say to a girl that they completely forget about stimulating her EMOTIONALLY!!!!

If you look at the history of our species,you will notice that the great leaders became leaders by commnading peoples emotions more so than just logic. And interactions with women are no different. If you will become an expert on how to feel good, then you will not just have quality women in your life but also all the wonderfull people that all of us want to hang out with, will join your social circle.


Alright thats my 2 cents for tonight. I am going out in the field.Wish me luck!

[Guest]

Not to be too negative, but working the room and getting approval from friends is part of the game. The friends and the room don't react negatively because your game is too good. They react negatively when that piece of your game needs improvement.

But otherwise it sounds like you did really well.

[Guest]

Yeah Murad I remember gaming a Guatemalan girl once - I only took a basic course in medical Spanish before and she couldn't speak a word of English other than "I don't know". I ran out of things to say after the basic names & places and was about to ask for her symptoms & medications 'cause that's all they taught in the class! : ) Maybe I should've just pulled her to a corner and kino escalate to see wtf happens from there haha ...

[Guest]

You know Vector,I agree to you on the fact that I still need to improve in order to be at the level that I want to be. Shit, there is always room for improvement as far as I am concerned. In fact now that you mention it, I dont think I paid enough respect to the guys that were at that venue.And Taj, my man, physical touch has ENOURMOUS POWER when it comes to communicating. I am sure that you have read research that was done on new borns that were not touched and the results were produced from those experiments. Touch, is UNIVERSAL adn EXTREMELY POWERFULL. With ability to evoke emotions and touch you can get any woman. That I promise you.