El Fenix, Alphamo and I went to Carsons.
This night was a wash! None of us did anything. Not really for a lack of sets, more for a lack of balls. Our energy level was low, and we didn't really open much. What we did open was half-assed.
My take on the night was that we needed to be in a way better state, but I suppose... not that it's an excuse... but it WAS a wednesday. bah.
What I'm personally taking out of this night is that I need to get better about 1.) being in state the second I get in to the bar and 2.) being in state in general.
FIRE.
well that's all.
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Carson's Wednesday Sept 3
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by Guest » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:46 am
Truth.
Last night was pretty lame...and I know I said fuck it as I was leaving, but now as I'm thinking back, I'm a little ticked about it.
At the beginning of the night, a good number of the sets out there where mixed sets. I realized last night that I pretty much never open mixed sets...and so when that's all that is available, I'm at quite a loss.
This is something I've got to work on.
Toward the end of the night (like right at the end), I opened a couple of sets that started decently....but one of the girls (dance floor chick) turned out to be reallllly drunk.
The other set was a shit-test machine (those so-called 'strippers' that where actually a re-open from earlier). There's no doubt in my mind that it was definitely possible to plow those STs they gave, I just didn't follow through.
In fact, I actually caught the blond i was talking to staring at me when I looked away....but when I went in to call her out on it, it wound up sounding really needy. I immediately became self-aware, got a little embarrassed for sounding needy (not sure why?), and ejected.
Instead I should have just moved off of her for a second and opened one of her friends for a bit.
On a side note, I would like to say that I was able to run a really good stare-down with that blond at one point.
She asked me some question at one point, and I didnt respond, I just shut up and stared into her eyes for a good 20-30 seconds with a little smile.
I'm still amazed that that works so well...I was waiting for her to break the silence and move back to her friends, but she didn't...she just kept contact and laughed a couple of times.
Anyway, I think you're right about the bad state. I've noticed that most sarge nights, for me, generally start out low-energy and eventually things build up.
Last night, nothing really built up...
Overall, there weren't too many easy-to-open sets last night which is a change from the usual BF/Sherlocks that I've become used to.
I won't accept that as an excuse for a shitty night though.
I'd like to try and go back there next Wednesday (when the crowd/environment is similar) and use it as a control to tune myself to do better.
I think if I can do better in a tough-open place like that, then god knows what I'll be able to do at other, easy-open places (BF/Sherlocks/etc).
Last night was pretty lame...and I know I said fuck it as I was leaving, but now as I'm thinking back, I'm a little ticked about it.
At the beginning of the night, a good number of the sets out there where mixed sets. I realized last night that I pretty much never open mixed sets...and so when that's all that is available, I'm at quite a loss.
This is something I've got to work on.
Toward the end of the night (like right at the end), I opened a couple of sets that started decently....but one of the girls (dance floor chick) turned out to be reallllly drunk.
The other set was a shit-test machine (those so-called 'strippers' that where actually a re-open from earlier). There's no doubt in my mind that it was definitely possible to plow those STs they gave, I just didn't follow through.
In fact, I actually caught the blond i was talking to staring at me when I looked away....but when I went in to call her out on it, it wound up sounding really needy. I immediately became self-aware, got a little embarrassed for sounding needy (not sure why?), and ejected.
Instead I should have just moved off of her for a second and opened one of her friends for a bit.
On a side note, I would like to say that I was able to run a really good stare-down with that blond at one point.
She asked me some question at one point, and I didnt respond, I just shut up and stared into her eyes for a good 20-30 seconds with a little smile.
I'm still amazed that that works so well...I was waiting for her to break the silence and move back to her friends, but she didn't...she just kept contact and laughed a couple of times.
Anyway, I think you're right about the bad state. I've noticed that most sarge nights, for me, generally start out low-energy and eventually things build up.
Last night, nothing really built up...
Overall, there weren't too many easy-to-open sets last night which is a change from the usual BF/Sherlocks that I've become used to.
I won't accept that as an excuse for a shitty night though.
I'd like to try and go back there next Wednesday (when the crowd/environment is similar) and use it as a control to tune myself to do better.
I think if I can do better in a tough-open place like that, then god knows what I'll be able to do at other, easy-open places (BF/Sherlocks/etc).
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:45 am
This is a tough crowd on Wednesday Nights...
Why?
Well for one at least half(probably more) of the crowd are regulars. And what I mean by that is they are the types of people who party 5 nights a week. You will see a lot of them at BF on Monday and whatever other good spots during the week.
Since they go to Carson's just about every WED night they know everyone there. It is like a big get together for them. IMO this makes it much trickier to sarge them.
Secondly if you just watch the room for a while you will see that pretty much every girl gets HIT ON multiple times. And yep all the sudden this 7 thinks she is a goddess. Not to sound racist but Black Guys are very forward. They are doing much of the hitting on. And yes they come over the top with their approach. They are complimenting the shit outta these girls building thier egos sky high.
Get ready for shit tests from these girls as they are going to throw them out. BE Prepared.
Even though I pretty much hate this place(TOO Smoky) I suppose I would give it another shot or two. And if I do go back you can bet your ass NEG's will be flowing from my lips.
Why?
Well for one at least half(probably more) of the crowd are regulars. And what I mean by that is they are the types of people who party 5 nights a week. You will see a lot of them at BF on Monday and whatever other good spots during the week.
Since they go to Carson's just about every WED night they know everyone there. It is like a big get together for them. IMO this makes it much trickier to sarge them.
Secondly if you just watch the room for a while you will see that pretty much every girl gets HIT ON multiple times. And yep all the sudden this 7 thinks she is a goddess. Not to sound racist but Black Guys are very forward. They are doing much of the hitting on. And yes they come over the top with their approach. They are complimenting the shit outta these girls building thier egos sky high.
Get ready for shit tests from these girls as they are going to throw them out. BE Prepared.
Even though I pretty much hate this place(TOO Smoky) I suppose I would give it another shot or two. And if I do go back you can bet your ass NEG's will be flowing from my lips.
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Sep 04, 2008 3:27 pm
[quote1220559895=playercool]
This is a tough crowd on Wednesday Nights...
Why?
Well for one at least half(probably more) of the crowd are regulars. And what I mean by that is they are the types of people who party 5 nights a week. You will see a lot of them at BF on Monday and whatever other good spots during the week.
Since they go to Carson's just about every WED night they know everyone there. It is like a big get together for them. IMO this makes it much trickier to sarge them.
Secondly if you just watch the room for a while you will see that pretty much every girl gets HIT ON multiple times. And yep all the sudden this 7 thinks she is a goddess. Not to sound racist but Black Guys are very forward. They are doing much of the hitting on. And yes they come over the top with their approach. They are complimenting the shit outta these girls building thier egos sky high.
Get ready for shit tests from these girls as they are going to throw them out. BE Prepared.
Even though I pretty much hate this place(TOO Smoky) I suppose I would give it another shot or two. And if I do go back you can bet your ass NEG's will be flowing from my lips.
[/quote1220559895]
Great breakdown. I've had decent nights here before, but not in a long time. Maybe the crowd has changed a bit. I can see it being very clicquish.
Consider Carson's off my personal list until further notice.
This is a tough crowd on Wednesday Nights...
Why?
Well for one at least half(probably more) of the crowd are regulars. And what I mean by that is they are the types of people who party 5 nights a week. You will see a lot of them at BF on Monday and whatever other good spots during the week.
Since they go to Carson's just about every WED night they know everyone there. It is like a big get together for them. IMO this makes it much trickier to sarge them.
Secondly if you just watch the room for a while you will see that pretty much every girl gets HIT ON multiple times. And yep all the sudden this 7 thinks she is a goddess. Not to sound racist but Black Guys are very forward. They are doing much of the hitting on. And yes they come over the top with their approach. They are complimenting the shit outta these girls building thier egos sky high.
Get ready for shit tests from these girls as they are going to throw them out. BE Prepared.
Even though I pretty much hate this place(TOO Smoky) I suppose I would give it another shot or two. And if I do go back you can bet your ass NEG's will be flowing from my lips.
[/quote1220559895]
Great breakdown. I've had decent nights here before, but not in a long time. Maybe the crowd has changed a bit. I can see it being very clicquish.
Consider Carson's off my personal list until further notice.
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:48 pm
[quote1220579252=El Fenix]
[quote1220559895=playercool]
This is a tough crowd on Wednesday Nights...
Why?
Well for one at least half(probably more) of the crowd are regulars. And what I mean by that is they are the types of people who party 5 nights a week. You will see a lot of them at BF on Monday and whatever other good spots during the week.
Since they go to Carson's just about every WED night they know everyone there. It is like a big get together for them. IMO this makes it much trickier to sarge them.
Secondly if you just watch the room for a while you will see that pretty much every girl gets HIT ON multiple times. And yep all the sudden this 7 thinks she is a goddess. Not to sound racist but Black Guys are very forward. They are doing much of the hitting on. And yes they come over the top with their approach. They are complimenting the shit outta these girls building thier egos sky high.
Get ready for shit tests from these girls as they are going to throw them out. BE Prepared.
Even though I pretty much hate this place(TOO Smoky) I suppose I would give it another shot or two. And if I do go back you can bet your ass NEG's will be flowing from my lips.
[/quote1220559895]
Great breakdown. I've had decent nights here before, but not in a long time. Maybe the crowd has changed a bit. I can see it being very clicquish.
Consider Carson's off my personal list until further notice.
[/quote1220579252]
We had this friendly argument the whole car ride home. You know where I stand Fenix, I think we could have done much better.
[quote1220559895=playercool]
This is a tough crowd on Wednesday Nights...
Why?
Well for one at least half(probably more) of the crowd are regulars. And what I mean by that is they are the types of people who party 5 nights a week. You will see a lot of them at BF on Monday and whatever other good spots during the week.
Since they go to Carson's just about every WED night they know everyone there. It is like a big get together for them. IMO this makes it much trickier to sarge them.
Secondly if you just watch the room for a while you will see that pretty much every girl gets HIT ON multiple times. And yep all the sudden this 7 thinks she is a goddess. Not to sound racist but Black Guys are very forward. They are doing much of the hitting on. And yes they come over the top with their approach. They are complimenting the shit outta these girls building thier egos sky high.
Get ready for shit tests from these girls as they are going to throw them out. BE Prepared.
Even though I pretty much hate this place(TOO Smoky) I suppose I would give it another shot or two. And if I do go back you can bet your ass NEG's will be flowing from my lips.
[/quote1220559895]
Great breakdown. I've had decent nights here before, but not in a long time. Maybe the crowd has changed a bit. I can see it being very clicquish.
Consider Carson's off my personal list until further notice.
[/quote1220579252]
We had this friendly argument the whole car ride home. You know where I stand Fenix, I think we could have done much better.
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