Former Stripper

[Guest]

Dammit I feel like I'm getting nowhere.

I could go on and on but I'll sumarize. A friend of mine introduced me to this girl. She needs a place to stay temporarily because of drama with her ex bf. I met her for the first time Wednesday.

Thursday night she calls me up around midnight and basically says she's bored, I should pick her up and we should get drunk at my house. I'm thinking the close is a sure thing, but no. Hard core LMR. And disinterest doesn't seem to affect her at all. And then she took off her shirt and then put it back on, which I thought was intended to encourage me, but LMR is tough as ever. Not getting anywhere.

Friday she asks to stay at my house one more night. At some point the conversation turns to fake tits and I feel her breasts.

Friday night she was going to sleep on the couch but I asked her to come to bed and she easily agreed. Still hard core LMR and I wasn't getting anywhere. Basically replay of previous night and I fell asleep. (Later that night had some drama with my ex, but not really related to this.)

Saturday I wasn't sure what to do but I thought I would give it another shot. Not working. At one point she said something along the lines of "you're persistent" and I thought of TopDog's recent post, but she's not giving in. Nothing I do seems to work.

I would assume that she was just using me, but she does flirt and it's [i]not[/i] when she's wanting something. For instance, I was on the phone and she spontaneously pulled up her shirt and danced a sorta sexy dance for a few seconds. But still I think she's mostly using me, but then at the same time she pays for things for me so I am puzzled. I guess it might be sorta like 'friends zone' but different.

[Guest]

It is possible she is just looking for some validation from you but is not over her ex enough to act on anything physical. I've been there before and it sucks ass! I would say to keep talking to her with no expectations and if a situation comes up, try again.

[Guest]

My two cents - It sounds to me like maybe she is using her sexuality to make sure she has power over you. Eg, you're on the phone not paying attention to her. She's bored, flashes you, gets validated and therefore bored. As soon as she sees that she COULD have you she loses interest.

She knows that she is toying with you.

Not sure what to tell you man, but it sounds to me like this might not be the most mentally stable girl for you.

[Guest]

Grab her by the throat, throw her against the wall, and start making out with her.

See where this takes you Sir.

That is so far out of your character I bet she goes fucking nuts...

[Guest]

Tell her you have a surprise for her. Then flash her with ur penis.

Disclaimer: I never tried it... so I won't know if it will work.

[Guest]

I have nothing but bad experience with strippers but that's just me being bitter.

I actually got in a short relationship with a stripper back in my Peter in college total super naive days. Never again will I ever consider it.

She had fucking issues like you wouldn't believe. For one thing, she was a pathological liar. She would lie about EVERYTHING even if there was no reason to do so. And she'd tell different stories like 5 minutes from each other. And it'd be crazy "my dad used to rape me please feel sorry for me" shit.

And oh yes she liked rough sex, she said she wanted to be raped. Well i guess the rough sex was a good thing, she was amazing in bed and she could actually deep throat which was fucking hot. But she would get pissed off at random moments too, like for no reason.

Basically I'm not touching strippers but that's just my rant.

[Guest]

I would escalate out in the living room and if you don't convert there or she LMRs say "hey i want to get some decent sleep tonight, why don't you crash on the couch"

If she doesn't find herself bringing her into your bedroom and leaving the LMR at the door, the next day she'd be out of there.

your assumption you mention may be right... so good instincts.. be real sure NOT to let this girl use her sexuality -ie. just enough- to get a place to crash

one side note: generally speaking i never ask a girl to go to the bedroom, take her hand and just lead her there. or more often then not,i just pick them up, throw them over my shoulder, slap there ass, and carry them in. :)

[Guest]

Thanks guys for your input. PC I'll try that.

For this one I don't care if I get blown out because she's from out of town and moving back soon.

[Guest]

It was a no-go. She immediately put her hands on my chest, pushing me away, and turned her head to the side. I'm done trying with this one.

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It was a no-go. She immediately put her hands on my chest, pushing me away, and turned her head to the side. I'm done trying with this one.
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I hope I didn't screw you over. I am going to describe a little more in detail how this is done. You could easily come off as some crazy maniac with this move.

It is not intended to do any harm to the girl. When you grab her throat you are not using any force. You are only using one hand. Think about how much force you would use to pick up an orange. That is about how much pressure you want to use. It is almost a light touch. The act itself is all that matters so a very light touch is fine.

This move has never blown me out. I have never had a bad reaction. It's possible some girls don't like it and just let me do it anyways. But from what I have mainly seen most girls are submissive and like it.