LR: High School Girlfriend—An Epic LMR Battle

[Guest]

The second girlfriend I ever had was a bit of a prude. The farthest I got with her was a handjob and some fingering. One time she described herself as “the most virginal girl” at her high school. We dated for around 6 months in high school and I have hung out with her twice since then. The most recent time I got her topless and made out with her but that was it. Thursday night I hung out with her and pulled out all my artillery to try to close her. I used sexual framing, extreme eye contact, push-pull, freeze outs, the KFP, taking off my clothes first, and verbal judo and it all finally paid off.

The date started at a restaurant/bar where we sat at the bar and had 2 drinks. I started kino immediately and kept pushing it the whole time. We caught up on each other’s lives and I made sure to qualify her and then focused on comfort and escalation. I dropped my “Stop looking at me like that or you will be in trouble,” line about 30 minutes into the conversation. This girl is very hard to read because she doesn’t express much emotion. She is pretty hot but comes off as a bit of a bitch. I kept this in mind because her reactions made it seem like she was uninterested. I simply told myself that she loved every bit of it and continued.

We moved to another restaurant/bar and had another drink. I kept the kino going and stayed mostly in comfort. I tried to kiss her on the way here and she turned her head. I simply played it off and kept talking. Then, as we were leaving, I told her we could hang out for a bit at my house but that I had to leave with my parents early the next day. She said that we didn’t have to do anything. I said, “No we should hang out. Do you want to ride with me or in your car.” This way there was no option of coming over or not, I assumed it. I drove her to her car to follow me and she said, “We can hang out, but that is all that is happening.” I responded with, “You are not getting laid tonight,” and then slapped her ass as she got out of the car.

Back at my place I pulled up some YouTube videos and watched 2 and then went for the kiss. She was receptive and we started making out. From this point on, there was a lot of her stopping me and me acting unaffected and going back on YouTube or having a normal conversation. She never reinitiated but did give me inviting looks. I got her really worked up a few times but she would cut it off before things got too crazy. For most of it, I had my shirt of and she had all her clothes on. At one point she said, “When are you going to give up?” and I just joked with her and said she wanted it too (which I could tell was true). At another point, she said, “Well, I think I am gonna go home now,” and something in the way she said it suggested that she was testing me. I used verbal judo by not fighting her and going in the same direction she suggested, “Okay, that’s cool.” As I said this I backed off and allowed her to stand up. She didn’t even try to leave.

We went at it again and I used the KFP by putting her hand on my crotch and saying, “This is what you are doing to me.” This got her worked up a bit but she still had all her clothes on. Finally, she said, “Should I just give in?” I said “Do what you want to do; I won’t judge you either way.” After this she finally unzipped my pants and started jerking me off. I tried to go down on her and she said that that was not going to happen. Soon after this she said,”Okay, I am going to have sex with you. Do you have a condom? [of course I did] Okay, I am going to the bathroom, turn off the lights and I will be right back.” The funny thing is she said it like she was telling someone she was going to the bank—so business-like.

When she came back there was no resistance whatsoever. It was so fulfilling to have sex with a girl who never really put out when we were 16. Plus, I learned how valuable persistence can be. She still had sex with me even though she said nothing was going to happen earlier. Of course this will not always happen but it was great to fight such an uphill battle and win. She sent me a text after she left that was a great compliment “You are very good at making people feel sexy. But you have always excelled at that.” I love this game…

[Guest]

I really like this FR. It is one of those that you get to catch up on your mistakes in the past. You are who you are now...not who you were then. She loved that.

Girls come up with all sorts of excuses in their head...I'm not having sex with you...we are not gonna do anything...

They know damn well that if you play your cards right they are getting naked the second they agree to come back to your house.

Well Done Sir...

[Guest]

Nice one Sal. I love KFP! The more you talk about something the more you magnify it. I have done similar "judo" things when i didnt get the response i wanted. Hope to see ya soon bro.

[Guest]

I agree PC, it really showed me how far I have come. Thanks Sonshyne, I miss you! This was a very rewarding lay. As an update I hung out with her again last night before I left for OK. We had plans for her to come over at 10pm after she got off work. She sent me a text around 8:30 that said: "P.S. It is really busy here tonight and I will not be having sex tonight. So if this changes your plans I am okay with it." I basically told her she had a dirty mind and to call me when she got off. I ended up going to her place and we put in a movie. I made out with her and pulled away several times and soon she was rubbing my arm sensually. I decided to go for it and we made out for quite some time. Then I pulled her into her room because her cat was annoying us and it was smooth sailing from there. It is so funny how girls will fuck you even when they say they aren't going to if you just get them in the right emotional state.

[Guest]

As Piranha would say, you "plowed right through it!" haha...