'Natural' Day Game Approach

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Yeah. Setting up dates while in pick-up is very powerful because it gets her thinking about seeing you again and about your future together. It also gets her thinking that you're a fun guy that's in the know or knows how to have fun.

One of my favorite future date projections is to tell a girl that I'm going to take her to Target so we can play with the toys, check out the lingerie, find something for her to cook me for dinner, then buy some toilet paper so we can wrap my arch enemy's house. Oh yeah, by the way...we'll get in trouble several times and have to run from the Target authorities during our stay at Target.

Works like a charm if only because it's totally different and fucking funny...I can't help it, I'm fucking hillarious, really it's true...

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If she should flake.....I like Scoundrel's approach to this one. Call the girl a few hours before your set time to meet and ask her "Are we still on for 3:00?" (or whatever time). If she flakes at that point, then you say "Oh, good. I just talked an old friend who just got into town and she wants (asked me?)me to show her around (take her to eat, take her to....you get the idea). "This is great. Maybe we can hook up later."

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Congrats Sal! I can't wait to the point where I have more of this stuff internalized and habit like you big boys :) I am so afc now it's not even funny to a certain extent... but way less every time I go out and work this, so I know I'm progressing... and have already progressed way farther in such a short time than I ever expected to. I can't wait to hit you guys' level :)

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Congrats. This is what it's about gentleman. Becoming completely natural. So natural you don't even need to think of what to say, it just pops out of you.

Side note: it's a great idea to set up dates on the first meet. Any good PUA should be doing this. That being said, I do not do it. I don't particularly enjoy dating unless it's going out for drinks with my friends or screwing.

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Congrats Sal! I can't wait to the point where I have more of this stuff internalized and habit like you big boys :) I am so afc now it's not even funny to a certain extent... but way less every time I go out and work this, so I know I'm progressing... and have already progressed way farther in such a short time than I ever expected to. I can't wait to hit you guys' level :)
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I appreciate the compliments but there is not really a point where you can say 'alright, I am really good at this.' There is no definate line. I like what El Fenix said, that we are all on the same journey and there are things that he is better at then some of us but there are things that we may be better at than him. Just keep going out and you will get better fast. For a long time I was getting results but didn't know where I was in relation to other PUAs because I mostly gamed alone. At the bootcamp, Helicase asked me what my game is on a scale of 1-10. I said a 6 and then he kept prodding me until I said a 10. We ended up shouting 10 in the middle of the bar! The point is, have confidence in your skills and it will vastly help your interactions!

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By the way, she already asked to be my Myspace friend...lol.

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nice job Sal, I'd say you nailed it! :- )

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Getting a date is WAY better than just a number and "let's hang out sometime." Everyone should be doing this and only accepting a number with indefinite plans if you can't get agreement on a real date.

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Sal thats my boy!!!! ur gonna go places we need to kick it again!!!