ALR: From Virginia

[Twitchy]

I recently started IMing regularly a girl in my social circle after lots of heavy flirting with each other. She asks lots of questions in the IM's and I always dance around the answers and just be as playfully difficult as possible. Lots of teasing and C/F.

This girl is SMOKING!!! Every guy in our social circle has a big crush on her and guys will literally stop and watch her walk by. She has a 10+ body, an 8 face and a 10 playful personality. A real catch. And she is brilliant too! She is in her mid 20's and still a virgin because of religious reasons.

She recently started asking lots of relationship questions via IM and I flat out ask her if she "likes" me. She dances around the question for a while and then eventually IMs that yes, she has a crush on me. I then start asking why to get her to fully think about and articulate her feelings. She goes into all of the answers which are "that I seem to get it", "that I don't seem to care or let anything get to me", that I "seem like a nice guy" but she is worried that I am "a playa".

We tease each other about each of us being a player and then I tell her that to "prove" that I am not, I will take her out and show her. She agrees and we make plans.

Friday I take her to a big event that lasts 4 hours. We end up teasing each other and tickling and eventually hold hands.

After the event is over, I take her to a night club that I have been to a few times before. I always social game the bouncers and doormen and the door guy remembered me and let us in before many others in line. I won some points for that!

We get inside, have a couple of drinks and start dancing. This girl has some amazing dance moves and several guys were checking her out while she was dancing with me. Light make out ensues.

After a while, it is getting close to closing time. I don't like to leave bars at closing because then you have to deal with all of the drunks stumbling around and then hitting the roads (I was recently in a bad wreck with a drunk driver).

Take her back to her place, make out at the door, she invites me in, we go straight to her room and her bed. To avoid LMR, I rachet the making out up a notch so she is really into it. End up getting her clothes off and going downtown. Her body is amazing!!!

There is no LMR but I also don't push actual sex because I told her I would respect her beliefs (and I will).

Her hands get naughty but I can tell she is timid so I let her explore as she wishes. She doesn't take it too far but definitely gets an hands on anatomy lesson.

Afterwards, we lay there and talk. She tells me I am the first guy she has ever let take her clothes off or do anything other than kiss her. She is also very pleased that I didn't push her and waited until she was comfortable.

I really like this one! Now I just have to decide if I can tolerate her being from Virginia and all.....

[Neuromancer]

Awesome, I am glad to see things worked so well for you. I don't see any mystery method in here so it doesn't count for the book give away. For that, It needs to be a cold approach and list steps A1 to A3 (and beyond if you got further but A3 is required for the book give away.) Submit an FR following MM and you get the book.

[Twitchy]

Actually, all I practice is Mystery.....Flirting to IM close was A1 to A3. IMed for several days and got to know each other = Comfort....and for the Seduction? Trust me, I was there.....

I have now had 13 LRs using MM since I joined the community in June 06. This should count for something.....

Want another FR? Here is a long one. During St Patty's on Greenville, my wing leaves me because he has to go home so I am left all alone.

Eye spy a very short, very hot African American chick (HB9) with a group of 6 other girls. She is sitting in the corner of a corner booth so there is no way to get directly to her.

I approach the table, engage the girl closest to me and opener her with "How long have you guys been partying today?" We fluff talk for a bit and I keep making eye contact with the Short HB. While fluffing, I keep thinking of strategies to get to Shorty.

Finally, I decide to go direct and tell the Obstacle I am talking with that I am being rude by ignoring her friend. I give Shorty a big smile and use a head jerk to indicate I want to talk to her (it is too loud to talk to her from this distance). She walks on the booth chair and steps over three of her friends to come and say hi. She is standing on the booth talking to me and we are about eye to eye.

I say excuse me, grab her by the hips and pick her up and put her on the ground next to me and say "That's better!". She is shocked but I think impressed that I would be confident enought to move her like that. It was done in a non-chalant way so I didn't come off as a creep doing it. She didn't seem offended so I plowed forward.

I tell her a few DHV stories about my day so far. She is laughing and talking a lot with her hands. I tell her "you use your hands a lot when you talk" (a neg) and grab one of them. I turn her palm over and look at the lines in her hand and say 'interesting....". She is intrigued and wants to know if I can read palms and asks what I saw. I tell her I will tell her later and give her a smirk. She hits me. IOI

She is already qualifying herself with what she does for a living, for fun, her goals, etc. I tell her she is really interesting and would love to hang out sometime and number close her.

I then isolate her by telling her I need a beer and to come to the bar with me. We are now away from her friends. I get a drink for both of us (I am not opposed to buying girls drinks unless it is for the initial introduction. Once you are already talking to them, buying them a drink when you get your own is just being polite).

We lean against the bar and continue talking. I kino by putting my arm along the bar and around her shoulders. (We are now in comfort).

After a bit of talking, I start to lower the volume of my voice and talking "more seductive" making it more intimate (if you can have an intimate moment in a bar surrounded by drunks wearing green???). I pause, stare into her eyes for a couple of seconds, and then kiss her. She responds and we kiss a bit.

I am meeting up with buddies later for "boys night" and don't want her to tag along so I eventually tell her we should go back to her friends. We go back to her group and all of the women open me trying to get to know me. I talk to them and eventually Shorty excuses herself to go to the bathroom. While she is gone, the obstacle I intially opened tells me Shorty is really picky and that she can tell that Shorty really likes me.

Shorty comes back, I give her a hug and a peck on the lips goodbye in front of her friends. I make tentative day 2 plans with her and hop in a taxi to join my friends.

My friends are at an Irish pub at a table. I hang with them and right behind us is a table full of girls with a HB9+ that is exactly my type. She definitely stood out in the crowd. I open her with a camera and ask her to take pictures of us guys. She agrees.

I then tell her I want a picture with her for being such a sport. She agrees and my buddy poses us in a couple of crazy pictures. We were having fun posing and I could tell she was interested.

I told her it was my turn to buy my buddies a round and wanted to know if she could come help get the bartendar's attention. She agrees and we go to the bar.

We small talk and I qualify her with what does she have that would make her stand out in a crowded bar like this. She is a little taken aback by the question but answers.

I bring her (and the drinks) back to the table and merge tables so now all my guys are talking to all her girls. I have HB9 all to myself now and am giving her light kino. My phone keeps going off in my pocket but I don't check it. After a few minutes, I excuse myself to the bathroom and I check my phone and it is a stripper I used to date texting me. She wants me to join her and it turns out, she is in a bar next door.

I come back to the HB9 and number close her by telling her I am going to have to leave soon but want to continue our conversation. I stay and talk to her for a little while longer and then tell my buddies I am out and leave.

I go next door and Stripper is already outside with her friends as they got tired of the drunken crowds bumping into them and spilling green beer on them.

We catch up for a bit and then she says her and her friends are heading home. It is only midnight and I don't feel like calling it a night yet so I give her a peck on the lips and tell her I am going to go back to my friends.

I go back to the Irish pub and my buddies have already bounced and I don't immediately see the HB9 and her group. I turn to leave and see a group of girls getting delivered shots by the waitress. As I pass them, I open the table with "Where's mine?" By chance, they actually have an extra one as one of their girls wandered off. I do a shot with them and talk to the table for a bit and although several of the girls were cute, they weren't my type so I bounced.

I hoped in a taxi to go to the bar my buddies went to. While I was in the taxi, my stripper exgirl texts me that I looked "handsome" and if I want, I can come keep her company that night. I text back to keep the bed warm for me.

I get to the venue my buddies are supposed to be at and it turns out, they have bounced again already. I wait for another taxi but it takes forever and I start to get tired from being out all day and from the last shot I did. I go home instead of to stripper's and crawl into bed.

About 2:30am, a MLTR lingerie model/nurse that I have been fighting with lately starts drunkenly banging on my door. I let her in and we have a fun night. And morning.