FR: Main Street Arts Festival and Durty Debra

[Tribulus1000]

Saturday April 19th 2008. Fort Worth Sundance Square.

I had a good time with Scoundrel and Oliver D'Place out in Sundance Square today. The weather was perfect.

I'm not big on daygame and the the Arts Festival was rather crowded with people and confusing.

I stopped a couple of groups of girls and I had a good set with Oliver D'Place which ended up being two married women but was fun.

I've begun using a bit more sexuality in my game. My theory is that the community does not stress this enough. I show interest when its appropriate and when I can.
IOW, I try and get away with things. And its working well.

Basically I "Go Direct" or "Go Gunwitch" after I have them qualify.

I opened a few sets at The Library at night. One in particular went well.

They were playing a Nine Inch Nails song. It sounded really cool and a chick was dancing to it. She had a few guys and a few girls around her.
I was also kinda dancing to it.

She looks over at me. I'm kinda jamming to the tune. She points at me.
I point back.

We dance back and forth watching eachother. I do the robot and she laughs. I do "Crush Your Head" with my fingers ala Kids In The Hall.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KuSl5hGu_P8

She kinda turns away and so do I. I turn around and look at a sign and talk to a few other people and my friend Scoundrel.

Later, I turn around and wave at her. She comes over.

(Looks scale, she's a 8.5? Maybe Scoudrel can rate her and we'll divide it by 2 and then take the fucking square root of pi or some shit.)

Ok so she comes over...

This is where it gets good. She's like "You guys are cool. Hang with us."
And I'm like "Hmmmm, I don't know..."

We do introductions.

And we go back and forth with some banter. I got in a few good verbal jabs on her and she kept hitting me in the chest and poking me.

Lots of kino from me also.

At this point she's really into me.

I grab her fist and I push her arm into my chest like she's hitting me and I say "Are you hitting one me?"

So kino is good.

So I try a little qualification. "So tell me about yourself..." The qualification doesn't stick. She says "I wanna know about you guys."

I realize that we're beyond that so I tell her "You'll have to wait to find out."

Some guys come over after they figure out that this girl has gone ga-ga. So does her friend.

I use the classic Mystery line "Introduce me to your friend...that's the polite thing to do." She does. A guy comes over and I'm real friendly "Hey man...what's up?" And I chat with him a little.

At some point the friends go away for a minute.

She says that they're going to another bar called "Durty...." (Her name is Debra) so I say "Durty Debra's".

She says "That will come later."

I say "You promise?"

She grabs my hand and puts it down her shirt. I get some titty action for a second. Nice. She's 30's but she feels good. I also rub her belly and her ass.

I say "I wanna go to Durty Debra's house."

She says "Are you serious?"

I say "Yes. I think you're beautiful and I wanna fuck you."

She says "I would but my husband is right over there." (referring to one of the guys).

I say "You know you want me." And I do a takeaway.

Well the friends and husband come back because she's a little drunk and might go home with a stranger.

I've missed my opportunity to #close. Damn I should have just done it!

I really wanted to go to Durty Murphy's a few doors down but I also thought it might look desperate and I wanted to continue with another set.

This is where I fuck up the thing. I really should have followed her and brought Scoundrel with me. He could have handled an obstacle.

The one thing that I have to work on is persistence. I was given a green light and actually invited to the other venue. I should have taken the opportunity. I also should have #closed when I could.

Logistics.

Logistics always fuck me up. I've got to drill down on logistics. Maybe even memorize some common scenarios.

But I reinforced some stuff I had been working on.

Sexuality is key. Its the key to turning a normal, friendly and even flirtatous encounter into one where something wonderful might happen.

I'm not talking frames here. I'm talking raw male sexuality. The kind of thing where you wanna fuck her and you tell her. Being graphic. Copping a feel.

Women live for this.

Overall a very good night. Not getting laid right now but...good stuff. I'll admit that its nights like these that keep me going.

See ya in the field.

-Tribulus

[Bull Run]

I was there yesterday as well hanging out with PicturePerfect and Smirks.

Approached one two set. Number closed the hotter of the 2 using indirectness, playfulness, and disquailfiers. Did the whole picture thing as well, if you don't have a camera get on!!

She's driving from Ft. Worth to Dallas as we speak for the privledge of letting me fuck her brains out.

Didn't get sexual on her till this morning via text.

My opinion is that direct game only really works when you're a really good looking guy....or truly believe that to be the case. Not saying you're not, just saying that I don't think it's as effective as some would have you believe.

Having said that, I've been able to effectively go direct. But I'm SOOOO much better, as I think all of us are, going indirect.

Sexuality on the other hand is highly effective. I lace all of my conversations with sexual innuendos, jokes and talk about sex in general.

[red]

I believe it is more natural in some cases to go in indirect. This is where calibration comes into the game. Knowing that you are comfortable in every situation.
An Indian man told me one,
"You have to be comfortable being uncomfortable."

A guy threatened to stab me the other day, for opening a group. Biker gangs typically take ownership of the bars they are in. (IF YOU SEE A BIKER GANG, BEFRIEND THEM.)
Was I shaking in my boots? NO, I do not own boots. However, yes, I was scared.
Could he tell I was scared? I do not give a fuck. Why, because even though I did not know the outcome of the situation, I was present to the moment. I knew I had done nothing to insult the girls. I had the intention of befriending this large biker stab officer. I was comfortable.

[Bull Run]

Wow. Old thread man. Jeez, reading that dribble I was posting 4 years ago and I just shake my head at how utterly clueless I was. I did run the camera routine and thinking about it today, it's a bit creepy to run on someone you just met...then again a lot the shit you do early on will seem creepy after you reflect on it. Creepy but necessary.

I do remember that girl...not her name though, just her. She wasn't anything special. Back then, she was an 8 to me...now, she'd be invisible. Fuck, over 80% of the female population in the age group I would go after are invisible. I find that simultaneously awesome and sad.

Like the quote Red, it's very true in PU.

[Tribulus1000]

Yeah if a guy s threatening to stab you with a knife, you probably should be indirect.
Actually, you should probably notice the guys who are with the girls and maybe not go in at all.
Maybe after you get your clock rung, you'll watch for that shit.

Old Post also. Look at the date. Why resurrect this when all you want to do is talk about the biker guy who almost stabbed you.

Dude, heads up...if you're in a bar and girls are hanging around Hell's Angels type guys or there seem to be empty seats where guys might be seated, its probably not great to approach.
What if they're just friends? Yeah what if their friends have knives or guns??