FR: Fishing For The One

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FR: Fishing For The One

Postby ike041000 » Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:46 pm

Have you ever sat in a bar and observed people? Can you tell me which guys are going to take home the girl(s) they're talking to?

Swaggot did just that. My first lesson was in a bar listening to him make observations.

The basic principles straight of '25 things not do' by TD were in play. Swaggot pointed them out as they happened like a play by play.

When a guy did something beta the girl would without fail immediately lose interest. This happened over and over again.

The girls were keeping a points system of the alpha checklist. Unfortunately for the guys, a lost point could mean the end of a game but winning a point just meant you're still in the game.

It was unforgiving competition, girls vs boys and from the looks of it, the girls were winning every time. :)


I think 10 of the '25 things not to do' involve minimalizing body language. I couldn't help but think of fishing.

The guy moves, he makes ripples in the pond, the fish swim away. He sit still and waits, the fish very cautiously approach.

Pecking, fidgeting, gesturing- each of these were a ripple in the pond. Women have an animal sense for these ripples and it scares them off.

...just stopped writing to open up this fine little indian thing in heels. She was lingering around me like girls do when they want you to say hi. So I did and...

Call the Guiness World Records. Tell them someone just hit every item on TD's '25 things not to do'. Tell them he did it in less than 2 minutes even despite reading the list the morning of said World Record.

I should feel dirty inside for going so beta. BUT! She was so into me she ignored every single beta thing I did all the way until her boyfriend walked up and whisked her away from our private moment......

What was I talking about? fishing? yeeah, go talk to swaggot about it and watch how he works. and remember, peckers don't get laid. :)
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Re: FR: Fishing For The One

Postby CasperKid » Wed Dec 07, 2011 12:34 am

Tyler Durden is beast. I love everything he writes.

For me, trying to keep a checklist of 25 things not to do is impossible and only serves to scare me. While I'm in set I'm sweating thinking out my fidgeting and when I do fidget I'm mentally like "fuck I fidgeted she is going to react negatively." and then that messed up my confidence and breaks down my game.

In reality, there isnt' much you can do wrong when you are displaying that you are attracted to a girl in a fun, playful way. Even if you "cause too many ripples" or whatever, if I girl digs your look and you come in with confidence and a strong vibe, she will overlook these miniscule tendencies. Just like you showed in your FR.

Dude, being alpha is a state of BEING, not quality of DOING. You can't DO alpha, if that makes any sense...

My point is that girls want you to know what you want and be willing to overcome obstacles to get it. When you show you are willing to face fear and approach her and then face her tests to win her over, she will feel your passion.

People watching = fun. Personal hobby.

~CK
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