Just here to update you guys on some of my status. I've met some people from the board that have helped with my game. I've mainly been on it with my buddy who is taking this "game" journey with me. I've been doing this for just about 2 months in field. Quick background -- I'm very outgoing, no shame, sales experience and I have a great confidence in life.
Let me start of with this:
[]Approach Anxiety[/b] -- I've had very little approach anxiety after I wanna say 5 sets total. Warm up sets are CRUCIAL, I now talk to 3-4 sets before I approach and decent looking targets. That being said, if I happen to have a chance with a hottie, I take it and roll with it.
Shut down - I don't think I've ever really got SHOT DOWN pretty bad since maybe the 2nd week, and that was only once. And I effed it up, not a strong enough frame.
Highlights-
I've got several kiss closes (usually within 3-5 minutes) and many more number closes. I've got one F close and another that I basically F closed but didn't have protection with (captain condom says always wrap your rascal!)
Direct Opener
I was at the bar watching a sports game, everybody was in their jerseys and what not but I was in my grey blazer, stylin' dress shirt, and dark jeans and nice shoes. Basically, I looked like I walked out of a GQ magazine no joke. Anyway, this one hottie comes into the bar alone, she gets a table and starts talking on the phone non-stop. She gives me a few approach invitations (eye contact while on the phone) so I walk right up to her table, set my beer down BUT I DO NOT LOOK AT HER AT ALL. I drink my beer, watch the pre-game stuff, when she gets off the phone I say "NOW do I have your attention?" she said she was nervous and she likes guys that are direct but she was nervous. We chatted, I did cold reading on her kids and their relationships with each other plus her zodiac sign and my zodiac sign blah blah blah Well her friends ended up showing up and thus the girl coding/girl talk ended up starting and my set was fucked. She was meeting her friend (guy) and went out to the table, it was bad, the guy ended up getting her as I saw them at another bar. My opening was strong but I couldn't follow thru, I should have ejected earlier I think.
HOWEVER, in that moment, I was definitely the observed. Every guy/girl in the room had their eyes on me and I could feel the attention of the room on me. It was epic.
Kiss Closes
These all happened at a bar scene.
#1 - I walk into a bar, see a HB 8, tall , light skinned hispanic chick, b cup, nice ass (aka "Super Pooper"... feel free to use that one, girls love it!) with her friend. Shes leaning on the bar and I stroll up next to her, trying to get a drink but its a guy bartender, and I say
"Hey no way I'm going to get a drink before you, get his attention for me" and she fixes he cleavage and leans over the bar and gets his attention and I get a drink. I say thank you and ask for her name, blah blah blah 90 seconds later I lean in and smell her and say "wow, I love that scent, is that Khloe?" shes like no, but good taste, she then puts his arms around me, leans on me (she has the luvy dovy look on her the entire time) and I start guessing which perfume it is (it was Juicy Couture FYI) and I actually missed the window to pull the trigger, she even acknowledged it "You missed that train baby" but a few seconds later I ended up kissing her.
Walked her to her car (I always play a gentleman's game!) Number close, then I meet her for a few hours after bar close the next night, then the next night I take her out for drinks and dinner and we end up in my back seat and shes naked. No rubber so no f close. My phone and text game is strong with this one. Shes 3 hours away so I'm running that game.
#2
Halloween night -- everybody and their mom is dressed up. I went as a cowboy, girls LOVED it. Opened many sets, many sets opened me. It was great.
I walk into a bar and at the very end is a 4 set, I have my wing with me, I opened the set (they were all 8s so I didn't care who it was) At the end was this sexy vixen girl dressed up as a slutty sarah palin (SO HOT!!) and she offered me some of her drink, I chit chat with her for MAYBE 70 seconds and I just interrupt her and say
"WOW, you have that puppy dog look on your face!!" and shes like "WHAT???" (this works 9/10 times) and I just say "Do you wanna kiss me right now?" (said in a tone where I can't BELIEVE she would have the nerve to want to kiss me right now!!!) her: "I like kisses" Then I kiss her. She takes my hat off and covers our heads so her friends can't see us making out.
Goes on for like 8 mins till the mother hen sees it and gets pissed off at her. Number close and leave. Literally making out with her in 2 minutes.
Note: This girl also had that luvy dovy look and both girls got into my personal space, IE leaned in very close to the kiss zone.
F-Close
I went out sarging on a WED night, no success, very few sets so on my way home I stop by the neighborhood bar, no talent, oh well. I'm hungry I'm eating and then I just finish my drink and an older 7 sits down next to me. She asks me how im doing (older women are a lot more direct) anyway she tells me this one guy has been chasing her ALL NIGHT and thanks me for "saving" her, we play the question game, I ask her sexual questions, go back to my place down the street, we do the deed and she leaves. It kinda felt like she was picking me up too, it was a little too easy.
Sticking Points
Attracting the friends I approach almost all sets I want to, there is still some slight hesitation , but I get it done. Also I have a hard time handling the friends. Even after isolation, I address the group , isolate my target, but I think I'm doing such a great job (and I'm not bragging, this is HURTING my game!) attracting other targets in the group that they either fight for me and I end up getting the uglier girls number or they get pissed I'm not hitting on them and take their friends away. How do I solve this?
Girls interrupting This also pertains to the friends , I will open a set and isolate or maybe they are by themselves and a girl joins later. They girl will feel obligated to her friends to not make them feel lonely (as they should! she just met me) but they somehow end up girl coding and taking over the conversation and talk about girl shit.
