I met this girl two weeks. During our initial meeting, I was able to qualify her a couple times on being a crazy girl. She’s very well educated, so it seemed like a good way to go and it worked. She asked about my tattoos and I made a comment about getting them in my wild and crazy days…I then asked her about the craziest thing she’d ever done. She went into a story about having sex in a taxi cab. After that I noticed she was qualifying herself. Earlier in the conversation, we were talking about how people are so full of shit in the corporate world. I said it’s not about the money. Twice during the conversation, she said things like, not that money matters to me. Anyway that night was the first night I was able to effectively use kino and I got a kiss close. I think kino was the key to everything.
We texted for the next couple days---midway through the week she suggests going to a burlesque show. Once again, I think it goes back to the crazy qualifying question. While there I asked her engaging questions like what would your Burlesque name be and what would her routine be, and most of the performers had tattoos, so I asked her what types of tattoos she would get. My mind was in a very proactive state and it kept her engaged. There was a lot of sexual energy there which I was able to capitalize on. We went back to her place; she invited up, things quickly escalated and we had sex. This is the first time I was consciously able to use game to have sex with a woman.
When I first opened her, she was in a large group. I was solo that night and just asked, what’s the occasion? It was a party for one of her friends. My focus was just staying in the set as long as possible and being cool with everyone. Once I could tell there was attraction, I took it as far as I could. For now, this seems to be a better strategy than just aimlessly approaching all night. It’s good practice for a newb like me.
Like I said…hopefully the first of many LR’s!!!
I’ll be back at it again this weekend!