FR+: Last night after group meet...

[Gamble]

was awesome! I don't know about everyone but my game was on fire! I gotta make this short and sweet right now, but I plan on putting up more details soon. Gotta work today so:

I'm just gonna go with stats.

Phone closes: 2
Kiss closes: 3
Finger Closes on the patio: 1
Day 2's: 1

I made out with some latino girl at the bar then made my way over, saw some HB8 running her hand through another girl's hair and I asked her if she knew the girl or if she was one of those creeps that smell people's hair as they walk by... Made out with her then bounced her outside, fingered her on the patio away from everyone else, about to bounce to my car then friend shows up, tells me she's married with two kids and that she had only had sex with one person. Oh well. Opened another HB8 with a neg, lmao cause I really didn't care, I was just havin fun... Got her number and goin on a Day2 tonight. All in all I had a pretty good night.

Feel free to post your field reports of last night here so we have a compilation of field reports from the same night.

[Kew]

Best night in awhile. Not only did the mindset evoked by listening to Mojo and Saber make a huge difference, but having the sarging energy around was huge too. I usually worry to much about outcomes, but tonight was just in the moment having fun. Albeit, I let the alcohol flow more then usual too, but whatever works.

I typically do a lap just to see if anyone I know is out and about, and on the opener had two older women actually open me. Not usually ones I'd choose to open, but fuck it I have no agenda, I'm just going for those social interactions. Took this as a good sign that I was emitting that positive vibe and was an instant confidence booster.

Made my way back to the bar upstairs to grab a drink and noticed the guys had arrived (you fuckers drive slow). Bar was full so I was carrying on a conversation with Levy kinda in the walkway to the bathroom, and I felt someone knock me in the back. No big deal shit happens. Then I feel a tap on my arm and a HB7.5 says excuse me, I hit you in the back I'm sorry. OKKKKKKK, time to talk to this girl. I forgot what I opened with here, but it wasn't a routine or anything, something situational about her just wanting to get her hands on the goods. She's hanging with two chumps who I chat up immediately, and they start to love me. Get back to her a bit more, incorporating some kino as I mock her for "assaulting" me, then I exit. Not that I felt it a failure, I honestly just wanted to interact with more people.

So I go around opening set after set trying out my new opening method. Up until now I've always used canned, long shit and although it works sometimes, I feel weird using it. And, after the perspective Saber gave on not wasting too much time on people, I wanted to get to the point. I'm not sure if any of you have read/seen Mehow's stuff, but he opens with just a "Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, or Wooooooooooooo" very often. Follows up by teasing the loudest girl who gives the loudest response with something like "Oh my god, you're the funnest girl I've met (pause for 1 second) in the last X time (30 seconds, 2 minutes, 5 minutes, whatever works). You can also incorporate kino here, which I did and it worked quite well.

Anyhow, that was how I opened all night, slightly altered based on situation, but I more or less had decided to stay away from all canned material this evening and see how things went. I also employed Gamble's technique of only going to the bar by a HB, and it was good. I sparked a conversation everytime with the girl everytime, and when my drinks (I was having a shot and a mixed drink for my first 4) arrived and they gave me shit, I poked back at how I needed to catch up with "you alcoholics" in regards to the set. This actually lead me to the next set of some length.

HB 7.5 (usually 7 but shes redhead so bonus points) who I opened while getting my drinks. Was in a mixed set of 4, 3 girls 1 guy. I forgot how I bridged from that opener to the whole group, I need to keep better mental notes. But they were down with me, and we got into where we went to school. Turns out target went to A&M (where I went my first year of school) but no one else did so we all gave her shit about it. I sold my value here, talking about how A&M was too static for me and how I left and traveled a lot in the years between then and now (truth). Slightly neg her saying most of the girls from A&M I've met are boring, and she is trying super hard to qualify herself. This leads to what she does now for work, and shes in Accounting. This was perfect, as it went along with my boring motif, and she kept trying even harder to prove she was fun. I didn't lay it on too hard though, saying that my best friend is an auditor and we always have a good fucking time (also true). We go into talking dogs and shit, and although I'm tempted to throw in the Dog vs. Cats routine I don't and just keep it natural. Shoot the shit a little more, and her friend comes up and whispers in my ear, we have to leave but you should get her number. I time bridge for Sunday, explaining I'm already going to Ft. Worth for the TCU game tomorrow, and shes clawing at me to type in her number. Use saber's prescribe organizational method for saving her in my phone, because I'm in a good mindset and know I'm going to be getting more numbers then I can handle tonight!

I'm about to walk back outside to our safety zone or whatever when another cougarish type women opens me and drags me back to the bar. She inquires about my friends (set I was just in) and I just say they were like minded individuals, people looking to have a fucking blast. She loves it, orders us shots, then kisses me, which although wasn't something I was really aiming for, never really happens so fuck it. Shes obviously rearing and gearing, but again a bit old for my taste. No number close, but I've seen her there before so if I ever want to pursue, I know I can.

I've probably opened like 12-15 sets at this point, and could potentially go after multiples, but the first girl I met caught my interest the most so I went back upstairs to reopen her. This all happened over the course of like 30-45 minutes, by the way. She's still with the same two chumps in the same spot, with the same beer. I reopen by giving her shit about nursing the beer, and to my dismay she doesn't remember me. Fortunately her friends do, backing me up on my story about her assaulting me. I totally embellish the story, telling her she karate chopped me and made me fall down, demonstrating with kino and telling her shes claimed to be a ninja. She knew I was lying about this part, but she was down with it and returned many IOIs and kinod me back. Topic turns to school again because homeboy had a Tech hat on. Turns out shes an SMU grad, which is where I will be going for my MBA so she loves me. AFC in group tells me dude you're in after I let them know this, and I smile at her and say I know. My tab was downstairs and I was thirsty, so I say I gotta go say hi to some of my other fans and leave. She comes up after me and asks me if I know where her table is. ???? Obvious is obvious, so I make note of where she points out to come visit later.

So I get my drink, interact with almost everyone on my way and at the bar then hang with the sarge group and try and gleam some knowledge off mojo. It was funny, everyone was congregated around him as he lounged back on the lightpole looking like the baddest motherfucker in the group. I want to utilize my surroundings in the future, and I just thought this was interesting.

Ok this is long, so I'll be brief with the rest. I chat up a bunch of other sets and notice I'm getting eyefucked so much more then usual so I try to pull off the 3 second kiss close with some random hottie. Doesn't work, but its all good she just wasn't in the market for my merchandise.

Go to HB #1's table and hang with her table for a good 30 minutes. Conversation goes from why shes a teacher, to her giving me feedback for my first tattoo (she has 9, and I used this to get the initial number close, explaining how she has to take me to a good artist), to pets, and through a whole bunch of other shit. I didn't escalate enough though, should have taken it to more sexual stuff. Closing time is imminent, so I want to go say adios to the guys from the sarge group, and I happen upon gamble and a set of latinos.

It was a mixed 4 set I think 2 dudes who Gamble sufficiently already AMOGd I guess, a HB8-9, brown skinned beauty, and her plump UB4 friend. Winging is a skill I certainly want to develop more sufficiently so I help my boy out. I remove the obstacle, but slathered on too much game, and number closed her here. She also gave me a parting kiss, slipping me the tongue then proceeding to call me after leaving. The other girl was worth it though, so I hope gamble can net some positives from that.

I see SMU girl on my way out and just casually mention she should swing by the "afterparty." So her and a bunch of her friends come to my buddies apartment, but hes an asshole who claimed to have more booze then he did. The rest of the group either all smoked or wanted to give us some alone time, so they all disappeared and me and HB were on the couch. Proceeded to makeout and escalate a bit, then she says how she needs to go. I say, OMG I let you kiss me now you're abandoning me so typical, in a totally joking way as not to sound needy and she laughs, sets up a D2 but then bounces.

Still, all in all a good night.
4 number closes
3 kiss closes (kinda)
1 bounce to another location

Most importantly, I had an amazing time which was the only item on my actual agenda. I know this is long, but its my first FR and I want to document my growth in the pua process. I really enjoyed letting go of all the canned shit I've read and just playing a strong natural game, with some great situational lines. Will be using this technique for awhile for sure!

[the_devil]

(Internet has been really screwy so sorry for putting this in its own thread)

Sorry for the delay but I wanted to post a review of Sayber's sit with us the other day. Fucking internet problems. For the sake of those who wish to remain anonymous I will refrain from using real names but as I don't know anyone's avatar either it will be hard to follow, I apologize in advance.

To start off with, I loved how he showed consciously or not some mental techniques for dealing with AA. The bit where he explained how the HB's are actually getting rejected more than we are was amusing and at the same time kind of showed me what you have to do to remove the defeatist mentality.

I also found “situational” or “circumstantial” game (cant remember which he called it) very interesting. I have been doing a lot of inner game work myself recently and I have also been studying a lot of natural game material (who'd of thought those things go together). I really do think this is the middle ground between natural and canned. You aren't really giving anything to the other party beyond what is subcommunicated through body language and vocal tonality, and really it's very trivial conversation. It's because its not important that its good to begin an interaction with.

I also liked how he explained using alcohol as a crutch to treat AA. His words were “maybe you need a crutch”. I was looking for some magic bullet to show me how I don't need it. Now I've realized I may need to cut back a little (as the sarging after suggested) but I may need the crutch till I have the confidence built from success. Going out with a lot of AA is like having a broken leg and it'll never heal unless you use a crutch and quit walking on it for a while.

Sarging afterward was awesome, great time. I'd love to hear any successes may have had. Opened a fair amount of sets (though booze keeps me from recalling anything close to a figure), I think 90% of the material I would normally use went out the window, and any success I had was due to my looks, body language, any anything else I was doing subconsciously. I opened with small talk, did some basic kino and that was about it. Mojo, was awesome help for the entire group as far as creating social proof. Night ended with me getting a ride from two girls back to my place a couple of new friends followed and I got them up to my apartment. I guess the plan was to continue the party but my place was a mess and I had no drinks. Another lesson learned, always plan ahead. Girls bailed. Dudes talked critiqued each other. Suggestions as far as social interaction for myself were to be more supportive of help in set. I come in with a strong presence that I guess is hard to connect with. Oh yeah, I should clean my fucking apartment. And there were some decorating issues that were not helping. Mainly heavy dark imagery that needed to be scaled back so someone besides a huge death metal fan could be comfortable.

Thats about all I got now. I don't care if anyone knows who I am. Name is Levi. Give me a shout. I'd like to sarge again. I'm a big supporter of the pre-party so if your down lemme know.