LR HBRedhead

[Scoundrel]

Every Thursday I go to a sort of party for musicians. We all sit around jamming, drinking, talking and getting high. When I first discovered this clique I made it a point NOT to sarge any of the women there. I wanted this to be a cheap day2 where I had lots of SP.

But, as soon as I started bringing a woman there from time to time all the regular women started to become interested in me. Pre-selection in action.

There was one girl that had caught my eye. A never married, 30 year old, no kids redhead, hippie chick. I tried to talk to her the first time I saw her there, but she the type of chick that talks non-stop. I mean this chick never shuts up. So, I just started ignoring her. When she'd go off on some bullshit story I get up and go to another part of the party. She was such a loud mouth it really sort of turned me off.

Last night I had an epiphany. Sense she won't stop talking long enough for me to run game on her, I'll communicate using only body language! Whenever she'd start talking too much I'd just turn a little away from her. When she spoke to me directly I'd turn a little into her. If she started going on and on I turn and take a half step away from her. Brothers, this was MONEY!

It started to feel like she was my puppet. She started talking less and I was able to run some game on her. I got her to qualify like crazy by simply giving her a sideways look about something she'd said. I'm telling you guys I didn't do much more than grunt at her! It as all facial expressions and roll offs. She started telling me EVERYTHING! She started to neg herself! She'd say things like "You think I'm crazy don't you?" And I'd just look at her sideways thinking "is that what I think?"

Around midnight I bounced her to an all night restaurant, where I was able to get into some deep rapport with her. We started talking about movies and I found one I have on DVD that she was interested in, but hadn't seen. Easy time getting her back to my place where I keep the TV in my bedroom.

I didn't use any canned routines or NLP patterns. It was all just subtle communication through eye contact, facial expression and body language.

[Gamble]

That's amazing Scoundrel! I am currently in the process of reading a few books on body language. I understand the basic concept, but I'd like to be at the level you're at in this LR. Body language is a very interesting topic that plays off of some of our most primal instincts. Very nice post, good information.

[Scoundrel]

All you really need to know is what singles you are sending. It doesn't have to be 100% Imagine you and your target have an arrow pointing out of your chests. You want to point your arrow as much towards her as her's is pointed at you. I like to think of it as two people sitting on barstools. if both are facing the back of the bar, they're in neutral rapport. If one is facing the other he is rapport seeking. If one is facing away she is rapport breaking. That's all you really need know.

Facial expression on the other hand is something that comes naturally to me. I've been to often that I have a very expressive face. That's why I'm such a bad poker player.

[Gamble]

Also, a more subtle signal for rapport that women pick up on more so than men is foot placement. There is also another imaginary arrow, as you called it, coming from the tip of the foot. Watch your feet next time you go out or see an attractive woman. Unless you are concentrating on it pretty hard, your foot, usually the more dominant, will point toward the HB.

Just a little tip.
Gamble

[Scoundrel]

I have heard that. But, I don't think it matters. No one pays attention to what someone's feet are doing from across the room. I'm not saying it isn't accurate, just that it could also just be comfortable.

Trying to read the body language of others is mostly BS IMHO. Are her arms crossed because she isn't interested in talking or is she cold? It's better to just ask her of she's cold. The only thing that matters is that she's talking to you. If she didn't want to talk to you she'd leave.

But, this stuff I posted above is different. You can mirror her in a general way. Then break rapport and see if she chases you.