Adventures in myspace-part 2

[dubya]

I'm not sure that I'm doing as well with this one.

This girl is black so I wanted to set up a frame with her that I'm the kind of person who ignores social norms and just does what what I want with who I want. To that extent I think I've done well. She has excepted and even adopted the frame as her own. My reasons for doing this is that interracial relationships are not typically thought of as being within the social norm, especially in this area. By getting her to openly reject what society deems normal I feel I have a better chance of pulling her. At least thats what I believe. And anyway, this is shit that I actually on some level believe. It seems to be surfacing in much of my game.

My problem here is that I'm not sure that I've built enough interest. I want to escalate this as rapidly as possible. She is responding to me favorably and agreeing with most of what I've said to her but I don't know if that I can pull her. Also, I have reason to believe even though she hasn't mentioned it yet that she might have a boyfriend. While I know girls will cheat I do think this makes things more difficult. Although, not conforming to social norms may have helped there too... I don't know.




From: Caragio
Date: May 18, 2008 3:10 PM


You must be a really trusting individual. Some random person sends you a friend request... he doesn't even have any pictures up yet and you add him like it's nothing. Whats wrong with you girl? I could be an ax murderer or something really bad...

From: myspaceblk
Date: May 18, 2008 7:22 PM


yeah thats... true but fortunatly for me u dont know where i live. i give everyone an equal chance and if they fuck up then i leave them alone. im not trusting just nice....

From: Caragio
Date: May 19, 2008 1:55 AM


You have an excellent point.

Hi, my name is Wesley.
Thats cool how you give everyone a chance, I like nice people (who doesn't...?). I tend to have an eclectic mix of friends. I guess I look for people who don't fit the mold exactly. So one of the traits I admire in others is that they are accepting of other people.

I think I want to know more about you.
Other then nice, tell me three words that describe you.

From: myspaceblk
Date: May 19, 2008 11:04 AM


just merely 3 words cannot describe me... but i can give u three that r a small percentage of who i am..... artistic. smart. spontaneous.... now u give me three words.

From: Caragio
Date: May 19, 2008 11:03 PM


These are all good qualities. Everyone I've ever known who was truely artistic also had an eccentric side to their personality. Some people tend to think they are a bit off but in reality thats what makes them unique as individuals and fun to be around. I like smart girls. The last girl I went out with had never heard of the book Moby Dick. I actually made her get out of my car. I guess that was mean but hell she was dumb... Spontaneous people are usually the most fun and the most unpredictable. I really like people who are fun and playful.

I agree that a person can't be summed up in three little words. But the choices that people make are sometimes amusing
and often people can't describe themselves at all.

I would have to say; intelligent, adventurous and trouble. Some people say I'm an asshole and in truth I can be. I'm the kind of guy who sometimes draws attention to himself because I don't really fit into other people's views of how someone should live. This doesn't bother me, sometimes I even enjoy it. I don't pay attention to the social norms that others want to impose on everyone else. I do what I want and I live the way I want to live.

Is that something you can understand?


From: myspaceblk
Date: May 20, 2008 11:03 AM


I completely understand what you mean. I too can be an asshole as you so blantly put it. And as far as you not wanting to fit into the norm of today's society.... I must say who decides what is the norm. Normal to me is simply a non existant word. Nothing and no one is normal. Although the things you say you do that dont fit into the 'norm' of society is just things you do that people believe are unacceptable. But I must say I live the same way. I dont give two shits what people think of me. And I dont mean to sound cocky but I have a lot of haters and I love them all. Cuz I know I'm always on their minds. I'm nothing like what people expect me to be. A lot of the times I'm the total opposite of how they think I should be. You should read my profile on my page.... I think it would give you more of an insight of how I am as a person.

From: Caragio
Date: May 21, 2008 1:30 AM



See I admire that in another person, someone who is willing to stand out and be different. I did of course look over your profile and there are a couple of things I'm interested in.

You say you are willing to try anything once.
What things have you never done that you most want to try?

And you're an avid reader... This is a big plus with me.
What is your favorite novel?

I've also noticed that you don't seem to be smiling in any of your pictures. Why is that? Do you have funky teeth or are you just not happy?

lol...

From: myspaceblk
Date: May 20, 2008 7:41 PM


i want to try outragoues stuff... like sky diving or snow boarding.... extreme things.

yeah... i love to read. my favorite novel to date is gone with the wind. and this awesome book called sex chronicles. u gotta read that book its very..... entertaining.

lol and the reason i dont smile is because i already look really young and when i smile i look younger. i do have nice teeth... thank u very much.....


From: Caragio
Date: May 21, 2008 2:04 AM


Wow cool... I've always wanted to go rock climbing. I like do things like that, that are adventurous and fun and a little dangerous. I think snow boarding and sky diving would be fun. I have a friend who likes to go repelling. He keeps trying to get me to go with him. I want to but I just haven't had a chance to between work and school.

I've never read Gone with the wind... I guess I shouldn't admit that. Eventually I will probably have to. I'm an English major. I love books. My room kind of looks like a library. Sex chronicles sounds interesting. Mostly because I'm a pervert and I like that kind of thing. My favorite novel right now is The Poison Wood Bible. I have a pretty diverse collection of books; everyone from Stephen King to Earnest Gaines.

Lately I've also discovered the pleasure of poetry. There is some really good stuff out there.

I'd say the jury is still out on your teeth. They might just be as pretty as the rest of you but... I don't know. You should smile more. At least in one picture. If you do I promise I wont say anything about you having bugs bunny teeth... lol... I'm kidding, unless you actually do... lol.

From: myspaceblk
Date: May 20, 2008 8:15 PM


i love the adrenline rush that i get from doin dangerous things... not too dangerous though.

u should definiatly read the sex chroncles the authors name is zane and she is awesome... im really into writing. i write a lil bit of everything. poetry is one of my strong suits.

no i dont have rabbit teeth lol. i just have chipmonk cheeks when i smile. and i hate that. when i get another camera i'll put up a pic of me smiling so u can see for urself.

From: Caragio
Date: May 21, 2008 2:25 AM


Adrenaline is addictive. Most anything that feels that good and exciting is addictive.

I've written a few poems, three of which got published in BPCC's little booklet, Savour Faire this last semester. I want to be a novelist and write the kind of stuff that school children are forced to read four hundred years after I'm dead... I have a few ideas in my head but I haven't had the time to flesh them out.

You know I'm going to have to tease you about your chipmunk cheeks... But I'm sure you're a cute little chipmunk.

From: myspaceblk
Date: May 21, 2008 3:33 PM


i know wat u mean about havin ideas in the back of ur mind. i have a lot of wat i call incomplete ideas. i just write them down and then i dont look at them for like a month or two. when i look at it again i just add more... u know wat i mean?

awwww... come on dont poke fun at my cheeks XP


From: Caragio
May 21, 2008 5:44 PM


Hey, I'm a mean guy... I like poking girls cheeks... and making fun of them...
What can I say...

I just noticed on you profile that you don't like horror movies. Most girls I know like them because acting scared gives them an excuse to hug up on the guy they're with and be held by him. My last girlfriend did this a lot. She had hundreds of horror movies at her apartment. It was ridiculous. But it was kind of cute the way she'd hide her face against my chest for a minute and then look at me a little embarrassed.

[Westfall]

From: myspaceblk
Date: May 18, 2008 7:22 PM


yeah thats... true but fortunatly for me u dont know where i live. i give everyone an equal chance and if they fuck up then i leave them alone. im not trusting just nice....

From: Caragio
Date: May 19, 2008 1:55 AM


You have an excellent point.

Hi, my name is Wesley.
Thats cool how you give everyone a chance, I like nice people (who doesn't...?). I tend to have an eclectic mix of friends. I guess I look for people who don't fit the mold exactly. So one of the traits I admire in others is that they are accepting of other people.

I think I want to know more about you.
Other then nice, tell me three words that describe you.

YOU are the one giving her a chance...

[Act]

Another thing to remember is that a victory on myspace may be short-lived. Girls see the internet differently than life. They don't see consequences online, either good or bad. It's like playing a video game or going to Vegas. You're just pixels and computer code. You're not real. Pull them from the internet at your first good opportunity. They'll see you differently. I like what you're doing here, because I want to know how it ends up as far as intellectual curiosity is concerned, but the internet is not the best medium. It makes the approach so much more blunt and that's something we try to hide. Approaching a girl tells her you need her more than she needs you. Work on controlling the frame and keeping yourself chased instead of chasing. I assume this girl isn't a 10. Most 10s wouldn't even respond. I'm new here and I don't know you or your habits, but my best suggestion is that if you're in this for anything other than study for you to just go live. There are so many more things to worry about live. It's important to be well rounded and you learn very little from the internet.

[Pandora's Box]

If you are really wanting to close this girl then you shouldn't even care whether or not she has a boyfriend. There are only a few reasons as to why a girl will ever even mentio the term "Boyfriend" ( taken directly out of "Mystery Method"

1. She is not interested and is trying to discourage you.
- She might be lieing about the boyfriend, she might not. The point is to make you go away and leave her alone.

2. She feels obligated to disclose the information
- Obviously this is in the case of her having an actual boyfriend, but she still might hook up with you even though. In all honesty, if she is encouraging your advancements, keep going man. Its IOIs all the way.

-****Look, the girl is responding, a boyfriend doesnt matter, and you better step up your game or you might lose her. Act like you've already closed the deal and you will. Nowadays interracial dating isn't that big of a deal anyways.