Fourth Week

[H_Raja]

Interesting week. I BOMBED. One step forward two steps back. I did 5 approaches this whole last week. I blew it. Feel like shit right now, but one upside though, I almost kissed a girl in a car, could have, but chickened out. But I am having a decent idea of the process now...A big deal for a total AFC like me.

[eagleman90]

Your true character comes out when you are down, not up. Keep hitting the brick wall and the bricks will fall one at a time. Learn from your mistakes.

[Mojo]

Don't feel like shit. It happens and will continue to happen - though less and less over time. The ONLY way to get good is to approach, approach, approach. Approach when you see the opportunity.

Also important, don't see this as failure. It's not! Each time you approach you learn something new. Whether it is a break through on how to build attraction or what not to do... it is all a positive learning experience.

Finally, never think or say anythingthat puts yourself down... You ar not a total AFC, you are an AFc that has seen the light... and that, right there is going to give you a HUGE advantage over those that have no idea about our community. You, my friend, knows the path to become that cool guy that gets laid all the time.... that doesn't have or even need to try. Now it is up to you to follow that path. The benefits you will reap will be more than just knowing how to socialize with HB, it will make you a better person overall in areas that will surprise you.

[H_Raja]

Wow! Thanks Mojo! Gives me some great inspiration. I'm really looking forward to improving my skills with the help of everyone here.