Girl I sarge got an AFC I just had blown out to buy us beer

[Mojo]

Asian HB6.5 talking to AFC. I go in, introduce myself and start the "which cologne smells better routine". I could tell she was korean so I whispered in here ear the only Korean phrase I knew: "Can I have a kiss please". She loved it! and laughed. I take over the conversation, blowing out AFC while Asian HB only pays attention to me. AFC leaves to go to the bar. Matt joins set. He suggests she should get recently blown out AFC to buy us beer. She immediately goes over, gives AFC a hug, whispers a lil something in his ear. A minute later we are at the bar with our new buddy AFC who had just bought a pitcher for our group.

And, of course, I #-closed

[Mojo]

Called the asian HB6.5. It has been about a week, however I have been busy and it simply skipped my mind to call. She was not as excited to talk to me as the night we met. I could not understand it since we had excellent rapport before. She is a hair stylist so I told her I needed a hair cut. At which point she said we would dye my grey hair. Grey hair? I don't have grey hair. Whah? Then it clicked... the AFC the other night who had bought us all beer had a little grey. She mistaken me for him. I told her she was not talking to the guy who she thinks she is... I am the younger guy. At which point she became excited and the conversation became more alive. Whew!

After some fluff talk I told her I had to go; had a few things to finish up at the office. We agreed to continue the talk later.

[Derek Blood]

roflol, that is all

[Mojo]

Agreed to meet HB Asian6.5 for coffee. I had remembered her as a 6.5, but, omg! I saw her in the light and she was a 7.5. Now, I know that my rating are different than many. So to clarify, I usually give lower ratings than some of the other Puas. Therefore, what would be a HB7.5 to me is actually an HB8.5 or even HB9 to some others

Another thing I notice was huge breastesies! And this is an Asian. Hallelujah! This is better than giving bunny ears to the Rev. Al Sharpton...

(yes, I actually gave him bunny ears. For the pic, click http://dallaspua.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=43)

...*gathers composure*

Uhhum. Ok, so we talk... *fluff* *fluff*. So she asks what is it that I like about her. I again tell her its her strong personality and the energy she carries herself with (I got dark sunglasses on... eyes on those breastesies ). Um, yeah, your personality.

A little later. I tell her I have to go for I was scheduled to interview a potential employee (which I was). Get a nice-good bye hug. Oh joy! My first contact with those nice, big, brea.... oh nevermind.

.......

Receive call from HB7.5 an hour later. Had told her I use to work for a radio station and her friend needed to get in the front door. Well, the radio station was back in Tennesse so I could not help. Takeaway time. Told her I was busy at work and would call her later.

.......

Called her around 7:30pm. Opened with "should I dye my hair completely blonde?". She is a Hair Stylest so this worked naturally. *fluff* *fluff*. Gathered some information dealing with her personality type. From what I have read on psycology, I now have insite on how to approach her. TIP: Read and learn about psycology - excellent stuff in sarging and real life. Hey, tomorrows V-day and I need a date. Told her we were going out tomorrow for V-day. Of course she accepted. "Am I gonna get some love tomorrow" she added. Hey, I need to get to know you first. I am not that easy...

[Mojo]

Kino is so important and should be initiated immediately. When we first met, I took her hand as we walked. Constant Kino all night with K-close at the end.

[Mojo]

I thought I should conclude this post. Sometimes you just need to walk away. It is a risk us PUAs must take. It’s only once you can let go and need no female, no feelings of scarcity, is when your cuppeth overfloweth with much pussieth

Told AsianHB7.5 that I would be shopping at the Galleria later that day, and she was welcome to join me if she wanted to me offer some fashion advice. Now, I was not so much prepared as to what would happen next…

I show up late, thinking AsianHB7.5 will already be there, but she is not. I browse a few shops looking for a shirt and get a call. She had just arrived. OMG, she out-lated me!. We meet, I take her hand and we go shopping. She suggests Versace. Ok, here is a major test. The cheapest thing in Versace is a $200.00 t-shirt (as I soon found out). This is obviously a test, testing whether I am a big spender. She also asks, in a half kidding/half serious manner, what I am buying her… I respond, sorry, I am no sugah daddy. It becomes apparent she wants just that, a sugar daddy. From Versace, she takes me to another name-brand store, very expensive but not as expensive; then to another expensive, yet not as expensive store. Clever! She is gauging my wealth. I am not going to buy at Versace - to hell if I am going to impress this girl. And I am not going to buy at a lower end store, making me look bad. I “decide” there is nothing I like. I reiterate that I am not anyone sugar daddy after she explains her friend at work said buying her something is appropriate. This pisses me off so, while in one of the shops, I start sarging several girls, who react in a very positive manner. Joy! I though a little jealousy would be good for Asian”wanna-sugah-dada”HB7.5. As I elicit flirtatious responses, this drives AsianHB7.5 in an apparent jealous mood. As a result I find AsianHB7.5 is actually very insecure. Immediately after she says she has to go.

This seduction is over. 1) my unwillingness to be her sugar daddy (she was aggressively pushing this frame), and 2) her inability to handle any flirtation from other girls (I might of overdone this >:) opps), seemed to end it. We part.


Since then, I have seen her out at the same place we met. First time she was with some guy - hmmm, timeto mess around with her - so I go in, start talking to the guy. She, feeling a bit uncomfortable, leaves. Awww… hehehe - blown out! Second time she is with yet another guy, sees me as I see her, immediately takes his hand and leaves the room. *snickers*



Gold Diggers are dangerous, especially since sarging may be a bit expensive. I posted a killer gold digger response here...

http://dallaspua.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=118

If anyone else has good routines to battle Gold Diggers, please post!

[SnazzyMcBugbearRidiculous]

You know Mojo,

I had something very similar happen to me that kinda validates what you are saying!

The whole go shopping thing and then seeing about whether you buy expensive shit to guage your wealth.

I met a girl - HBschoolteacher - and she came over to my place, picked me up and we went to the mall shopping. I needed to get shoes, shirts, basically I am in dire needs of a new wardrobe - but I am too picky to settle for this or that.

Anyway, I found a wicked pair of motorcycle boots by Triumph - but they were priced at 600 USD which I think is too much (I saw online these EXTRA wicked motorcycle boots for 300 quid and I would rather have them than these ones). I tried them on, walked back and forth and the whole time she kept asking me "are you going to get them?" "You should get them, do you like them?"

But it was in the way she was asking that kinda freaked me out. It was almost desperate. I dont know it didnt matter in the end. I didnt get them, we went back to my place and did the dirty.

I dont know how that happened it just did.

Snazzy

[Mojo]

I might of been wrong to have assumed the asian HB to be a gold digger. in this field report.

I have found that in some parts of Asia, the more you buy for your lady the more it helps in your favor. At first this seemed at odds with what we know in America. Why does anyone need to buy a women's love? However at closer look, it falls right in with the theories of attraction. Generosity is seen as a MAJOR status symbol, the more you give to others the more stature you hold in your social group and community. When a women takes you out shopping or invites her girlfriends to eat dinner with you, she is giving you a an opportunity to raise your status and NOT to use you as a sugar daddy. This takes time for any westerner to understand, but interestingly, is true. Further questions such as how much you make (not an appropriate question in the west) is another chance to communicate your status by divulging your wealth.

So maybe when the asian HB, who was originally from asia, was giving me a chance to up my status in her eyes.

[Kit]

Hmmm... basically it seems that you were in her frame. Most women will frame you if you allow them. Either to take care of their kids (I have been there) or take them out to eat at nice places, or buy them things or take them traveling or whatever they need just was we try to frame them to simply meet our sexual needs. The point is you should have changed the frame. How? I am not sure, maybe don't get yourself in that situation of shopping again especially if you are not looking to spend money.

Maybe you could have gone in the dressing room, called a friend and then asked him to call you back in two minutes. Then get next to her, wait for the phone to ring and then say your servers are down at work and you have to go in for a few minutes to get them back up, or whatever... you get the idea. Then take the expensive clothes and ask the clerk to put them on hold under your name that you want to come back and get some other stuff to go with it.

This way you look like you can afford and you get out of the mess and schedule meeting somewhere that works more to your advantage.

Just an idea...