I'll preface this by saying that I moved here three weeks ago. I joined your community last weekend. And tonight, my first Dallas LR!
The situation was this: I met this girl through a friend at work. We had a brief face to face interaction, about 10 minutes, then talked on the phone for a few minutes, setting up a date.
Since I have gotten into PU, I generally don't like "dates" in the traditional sense. But I really didn't have to work on attraction, so I went for the date and building comfort.
Throughout the date, I didn't run any routines or tactics or games. I bantered with her, I told her she was striking out, I made friends with the bartender and treated her like she was a wierd girl at the bar hitting on me. We talked about life ambitions, religion, the whole spectrum. I DHV'ed by talking about the ways that I am trying to improve myself, and the things I want to learn to do. I made her qualify to me. I got a good buzz going at one time, and we had a rambling conversation about football with her and the guys next to me.
She said she wanted to see my apartment. I brought her up. We talked on the patio. As I was kissing her, I made sure to grab her hair by the roots and give it a good tug. I didn't ask her if she wanted to kiss me, I just did it. I knew it was on. When I started kissing her she practically dragged me to the bedroom. The rest is history.
When I asked her when she knew she was gonna sleep with me, she said it was when I pulled her hair. It was great, guys, I gotta tell ya. This is like the third first date in a row where I have closed the deal.
I still have a major sticking point though!!! I can generate comfort and seduce really well. In the right circumstances, I can generate attraction really fast. But I still suck in bars, clubs, a lot of the environments we work in.
That is why I am so happy to be here!! I have lived in small towns for so long, I feel like I can really work my cold approaches here and really tighten up my game. But I need help from you guys!! I am looking forward to sargin with y'all and gettin this shit down. So far, Dallas is rockin the shit!!
