1)when you walk in the door. dont look around everywhere dont stare at the girl on stage. pay attention to the waitress whos taking you to the table and drop something unique on her, maybe an opinion opener just to differentiate yourself. don't look past a 10 degree slant from straight forward for you--why? because thats what every other chump does remember we are the exception.
2)befriend the bartender--KEY POINT. order something unusual but not obscene (god help me if you order a fucking sex with an aligator, i might just hit you with the shaker). that way you have a talking point to open the bartender with IE: "yea i like my gin and tonic with a cherry bc......so whats the most unusual thing you've made while working here". no matter who you are, so long as the bartender isn't ass slammed busy, you will be a welcome reprieve from slinging drinks and the other customers asking who they can pay for an HJ (yea it happens all the time).
3)once you chat the bartender up, the manager will inevitably notice you. introduce yourself now that he sees your not a threat and you "know" the bartender (also a key point especially at the end of the night). bear in mind that the manager is probably having a shitty night bc hes dealing with 30 prissy pissed off bitches all of whom have major issues plus girl drama going on at the same time, not to mention hes trying to run the club and sell champagne. if you can chat the manager up for a bit do it, but realize that your time is most likely going to be short, ask him about how his night is etc. they are usually very cordial.
4)important point.....DONT JUST SIT IN YOUR TABLE--why? because look at every other sucker that is there whats he doing? exactly. move around the club. venue change yourself several times this will force the girls to notice you everytime the pass because you are "new" each time.
5)once you find your target note logistics. if shes either on her way to another customer or on her way to the stage she will blow you off not bc shes a bitch but because shes there to make money (side note. dont go to strip clubs on the first or end of the month--why? rent is due and these skanks have one thing on their mind).
6)once you find your target, engage her UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO YOU EVER BUY A DANCE FROM HER--bc as soon as you do. you are no longer the PUA, you are now just "a customer" like everyone else, you may be interesting and intelligent but your still "a customer" game over. some of these girls are shameless and will ask for a dance within the first 30 seconds....how do you deal with that is a question i get sometimes...bc if you tell her "no i dont buy dances" or something like that BOOM shes gone onto the next customer trying to make money. when she asks say something like "maybe" or "well see" or "my your very forward, are you always this pushy" (on that last one make sure to smile during the delivery so she knows your kidding) that way you haven't blown out but again YOU ARE A CHALLENGE. also bear in mind that strippers are great conversationalists and will be able to hold a shallow and meaningless conversation that you may think is going somewhere but is in actuality the same conversation (verbatim) that she just had with the guy 2 tables over. thats why mini cold reads work well on strippers because you aren't just talking about the weather, your dog, how you hate your job or your wife. shes heard all the usual stuff before--side note, the cube works pretty well here too. anything that is oddball or unusual is great material for strippers
7)once you engage, make damn sure to neg her quickly and make sure to NEVER lose eye contact--i know its hard when shes wearing nipple tassles and a thong (possibly open with a neg). these girls are used to being worshipped all night so the fact that you aren't buying her BS makes her have to work for it. chat her up for a second and then go order another drink make sure the bartender remembers you and if you can shake his hand or high five him (social proof) that helps bc she will see it. once you've engaged her now its time to fuck with her head. make her jealous
jealousy works WELL on strippers. understand that though they are treated like 10s all night few if any of them actually have any REAL self esteem so negs and jealousy (talking to other girls) works well. with that said dont go overboard on the negs or you will blow yourself out. strippers are also EXTREMELY ADD so if you ignore them for too long or talk to another girl for too long then they will forget about you.
understand here that they are most likely A-drunk B-high or C-both so their attention span is short. this is also why you try for a same night close if possible (if you have to number close make sure you write your number on something special or do something out of the norm so she remembers you when she wakes up tomorrow instead of just seeing a number and thinking "oh this is another customer i can call when im working to come in and extort money from") especially if you have her buying temperature spiked if shes turned on by you--you CAN close her......here comes that pay back in befriending the bartender/manager earlier--at the end of the night depending on the club you may be able to hang out after hours and wait for her to get dressed while you chat with the manager i've seen it happen in my club and know it happens in others there is the value of building repore with the right people they know your friendly and will most likely perceive that you know the girl (important side note--for as much money as strippers make, a great portion of them DONT have cars. so there is a good likelyhood that she may need a ride home.....need i say more
) . boys i can ramble for days but i think that should suffice for now. if y'all have specific questions or want me to elaborate on a certain point or think i forgot something just tell me i'de be happy to spill another paragraph or two about what i've seen work.
-Rainman
) Is he the owner? How come so many girls sit with him? or what's his game? haha
