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Need help in showing attainability
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Sun Jun 10, 2007 1:59 pmby Ca$h
Demonstrating attainability has been my sticking point lately. I have tried to calibrate my interactions with HBs and UGs and the result has been the same albeit in different forms. What am i missing?
Posted:
Sun Jun 10, 2007 2:28 pmby TheAwakened
You're going to have to give us some examples of your interactions.
Posted:
Sun Jun 10, 2007 5:45 pmby Vector
What do you mean by demonstrating attainability? Demonstrating that you are attainable? In other words, not too good for them?
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Sun Jun 10, 2007 6:13 pmby quipster
why do others think you are unattainable? Are you a different race? higher value person?
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Sun Jun 10, 2007 10:21 pmby Ca$h
I am getting the vibe am "too good for them" they feel that they dont measure up
Build Rapport
Posted:
Mon Jun 11, 2007 12:43 amby Tribulus1000
If you feel that you are too "high value" (Example: you're good looking and you intimidate them) then go for rapport.
Rapport is the goal of all of this. The goal is not to run attraction game all night and get tons of social proof only to go home alone.
Can I get an amen, brothers?
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Mon Jun 11, 2007 11:29 amby quipster
Give them compliments.. I would give complements on their physical features ie. eyes,hair,smile,nails, etc...
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Mon Jun 11, 2007 10:38 pmby Ca$h
Amen Amen. I will give it a try and let you know. i like the rapport idea. Thanks