my life is slowly changing for the better

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I ran a little game on Saturday night, and laid some pipe. Grim made me game a little the night before and although it went to shit, i needed it.

So I got on a plane to Maryland for work today, and thank god I fucking changed my life half-way over the last couple months.

I went to Napa/Sonoma/San Francisco with a girl I work with (though we don't work together) and it was a bad ass trip, hooked up a few time after the trip, and frankly I cared about the girl too much because I perceived that I didn't have any options with women. She flaked and I didn't really talk to her for 2 months, like a bitch. Well she left a fuck-ton of bad ass wine at my house and I told her multiple times that if she didn't come get it I would drink it. Well, I drank it, and told her today and it was fucking liberating. I just didn't give a fuck when I told her and although she tried to play it off like it was funny and she made childish mad-faces at me. Well, she didn't go out with the group tonight to hit the bars most likely because she's pissed off and probably perplexed that I'm not a little bitch. I plan on fucking her like a viking tomorrow, and treating her like all the other 7's, on the 2nd string back-up squad...after I assemble a first string squad of course. Even if I don't work on the plumbing tomorrow, at least

lol

thanks to everyone who's altruistically pushed me to better myself and do something for a change, rather than cry like a bitch.

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btw, I just hooked with fucking eye contact in a bar, walked over, went direct with "you guys look cool" and walked out with 2 girls in the same set giving the # close.

Holy shit. Its all about attitude. When you feel like you have an option other than failure, and learn to eject or temporarily bounce when you run out of shit to say, you can win!

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its good to see that you thinking about success instead of failure now man. Failure is not an option! heh

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I'm glad to see that you're coming around....

Don't know you that well, but I'll bet you're a cool guy with a lot to offer.

Glad to see that you're starting to believe what everyone else around you already knows....

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If anything its the first time I've ever been able to rationalize that I really, really want this girl, but its not worth compromising my integrity or pride. If I don't get her again, I'll get another one tomorrow. The girl who wants me is more attractive than the one who doesn't.

Its incredibly simple, but:
"you froze me out like a bitch.
I told you to come get your shit.
You called my bluff because you thought I was a bitch
you fucked up and I have better things to do that wait on you."

I've never had that thought process before.

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Hell Yeah...

Love to see that your mindset is different now. Keep that state of mind and never look back.

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Hell Yeah...

Love to see that your mindset is different now. Keep that state of mind and never look back.


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I think I opened on like 20 sets asking if they would rather see skinny or fat Elvis. I also changed up the tattoo opener and used that with something I'm comfortable with. I know opinion openers are weak, but I think they support my frame when I put my spin on them. I even locked in on an opener I tested out (50/50 though) asking women if they're was "an appeal process for a Jihad declaration because someone put out a Jihad on me and i didn't know if it was a form I could submit, or if I had to go to a small town in Switzerland and discuss it with a board"...lol.

I can do this shit and enjoy it if I use original shit. If I don't, even though its not really that important, I feel like I compromise my intellectual integrity. If I'm not entertaining myself, I can't entertain the womens.

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good shit man. glad to see you coming back around. You just said the most important part in the last sentence you wrote...

"I'm not entertaining myself, I can't entertain the womens."

Just tell your self this every time because you must keep the mindset that you're qualifying them and not the other way around. If they're not to you're level intellectually then move to the next set and find ones that can talk tango with you. I find intelligent girls much more appealing and often fall into rapport too quickly with those kind of girls so don't forget the importance of building attraction. But in all sounds like you're on your way man.

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fuck, I just hesitated, and now I'm kicking myself in the ass. God damn it. This fuck-up will haunt me for the rest of my life because once again, I didn't try when i should have.