My sticking point
I’ve gotten my rap pretty tight. I can have a fun conversation with just about anybody and about almost anything. When things lull, I have a few interesting routines to fall back on and I’m coming up with new ones all the time. I get compliments on my clothes often. Even when I’m wearing only jeans and a T-shirt. I have good social proof in a few target rich locations and women frequently open me.
My sticking point is going kino. I have a hard time with that first touch. I’m always afraid it’ll come off as creepy. So, most of the time I wait until she kinos me. But, when she does, my body tenses for a second. Something in my head flashes and I know the game has just changed. I now know she’s into me and I freeze. Before, it was just fun, now things are going places. This MEANS something and I feel like I’m in over my head.
I know, it’s just something I’m going to have to work through and get used to, like approaching, but if any of you know something that would help...
My sticking point is going kino. I have a hard time with that first touch. I’m always afraid it’ll come off as creepy. So, most of the time I wait until she kinos me. But, when she does, my body tenses for a second. Something in my head flashes and I know the game has just changed. I now know she’s into me and I freeze. Before, it was just fun, now things are going places. This MEANS something and I feel like I’m in over my head.
I know, it’s just something I’m going to have to work through and get used to, like approaching, but if any of you know something that would help...