Dallas PUA

I'm trying to figure this one out. There was a new girl that started at work (I'm a bartender btw) so I decided to try some of this stuff on her. I gave her some kind of cocky funny negs all night long as she was training and we had alot of fun. She called in the next day to quit saying it wasn't for her. But....she comes in that night with her sister to sit at the bar and chat with me. As the night b4 I continued joking around with her and her sister. I got her # but the funny thing is, get this shit, her younger, hotter, married sister was like all over me saying how hot I was and trying to get with me. Can anyone give some some ideas as to what took place? And what would you have done?

You probably telegraphed more interest to her sister(the girl who quit) than you did her, which naturually made her want you more due to the fact that you seemed like a challenge. Hard to say since I wasn't there, but chances are thats what happened.

Bset wrote:You probably telegraphed more interest to her sister(the girl who quit) than you did her, which naturually made her want you more due to the fact that you seemed like a challenge. Hard to say since I wasn't there, but chances are thats what happened.

+1

Of course, this could be combined with the possibility that she has recently discovered that she isnt happily married. You never know what's going on at home with girls like that... or maybe she just has some sister rivalry thing going on... or MAYBE they're both little freaks and like to double team guys... I think I'm going with that one

the first sister may have added to your value by helping you appear preselected to the second sister

add in that you may have telegraphed disinterest to the second sister and thus attracted her

as for what id do, it would depend how easy or hard it would have been to extract. depends if i was there or not. married women all over you like that oft just need a seduction location, discretion, and a BT spike

warriorpoet wrote:as for what id do, it would depend how easy or hard it would have been to extract. depends if i was there or not. married women all over you like that oft just need a seduction location, discretion, and a BT spike

Come on dude, messing around with married chicks is just not right. Wait until she gets caught with someone else and her husband divorces her ass... it might just save your life someday

(yeah... I truely feared for my life once... learned my lesson!)

Sage wrote:Come on dude, messing around with married chicks is just not right. Wait until she gets caught with someone else and her husband divorces her ass... it might just save your life someday

(yeah... I truely feared for my life once... learned my lesson!)

I think you may be confusing "morally wrong" with "potentially dangerous".

TheAwakened wrote:I think you may be confusing "morally wrong" with "potentially dangerous".

You don't find it morally wrong to mess around with someone you know is married?

Well, I was mostly just poking fun at you because you said it was wrong but only gave reasons as to why it can be dangerous.

I've never gamed a married woman before, but as far as the morality of it goes, I think that it all comes down to your intentions. If you trick her into sleeping with you by implying (or outright telling her) that you're genuinely interested in her as a person instead of just a quick lay, but then you make no effort to contact her after you do the deed, then that could definitely be construed as morally wrong.

On the other hand, if you meet her in a relatively innocent manner and form a genuine emotional/sexual connection, it's a bit harder to find fault with that. I'd say in that situation, her cheating is a sign that something is already wrong with her marriage.

So really, I guess it's not that much different than gaming any other woman, aside from the modest chance of getting killed by a jealous husband. Then again, laying a girl who's in a relationship but not married carries the same risk.

Sage wrote:

warriorpoet wrote:as for what id do, it would depend how easy or hard it would have been to extract. depends if i was there or not. married women all over you like that oft just need a seduction location, discretion, and a BT spike

Come on dude, messing around with married chicks is just not right. Wait until she gets caught with someone else and her husband divorces her ass... it might just save your life someday

(yeah... I truely feared for my life once... learned my lesson!)

not right according to whom.

im always discreet. ill take my chances. i just dont care.