Common Pick Up Mistakes

I thought it would be helpful to list common mistakes newbies or even experienced veterans make.
1) Getting validation from the game.
2) Analysing the game too damn much.
3) Becoming a frame control freak.
4) Reading about cocky+funny and becoming an asshole.
5) Taking the game too seriously.
6) Not taking action until everything seems perfect in your mind.
7) Using manipulation (read: being a nice guy who hides his desires in order to be liked).
8 Focusing on the girl, instead of being who you are and not compromising your integrity.
If you guys have any more, just post them here.
1) Getting validation from the game.
2) Analysing the game too damn much.
3) Becoming a frame control freak.
4) Reading about cocky+funny and becoming an asshole.
5) Taking the game too seriously.
6) Not taking action until everything seems perfect in your mind.
7) Using manipulation (read: being a nice guy who hides his desires in order to be liked).
8 Focusing on the girl, instead of being who you are and not compromising your integrity.
If you guys have any more, just post them here.