My most hated question....

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My most hated question....

Postby The Kidd » Thu Feb 01, 2007 5:43 pm

OK ive noticed over the years when girls ask so why do you like me it completely stumps me everytime....i mean i dont wanna tell her either that im not really that interested or on the other hand that im obsessed with her i mean ive tried saying a few things but nothing seems to stick cause they just keep asking question after question....so help here please what should one say when a girl asks the haunting question...."Why do you like me?"

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Postby Vector » Fri Feb 02, 2007 12:18 am

You will get the best response if you give her things she likes about herself. Qualification is designed to do this already by asking her what she thinks is good about herself and then appreciating her for those things. Then she will know why you like her and won't have to ask, but if she does, you've got a reason.

If she asks first, before you've qualified, you're sorta behind the 8 ball. Give her some generalities, "you have a great energy about you" or something like that. But really you should make a mental note: you messed up earlier by not qualifying.[/i]
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Postby The Kidd » Fri Feb 02, 2007 10:08 pm

thanks man that helps
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Postby H_Raja » Sun Feb 04, 2007 10:53 pm

Watch seduction school videos with wayne elise(the guy is my hero). In there he says to find something about a girl and say that it is sexy. Since I am on a college campus, I would say that a girls ambition or career path is sexy. Thats why you like her.
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Postby Mojo » Mon Feb 05, 2007 11:30 pm

Vector76 wrote:You will get the best response if you give her things she likes about herself. Qualification is designed to do this already by asking her what she thinks is good about herself and then appreciating her for those things. Then she will know why you like her and won't have to ask, but if she does, you've got a reason.

If she asks first, before you've qualified, you're sorta behind the 8 ball. Give her some generalities, "you have a great energy about you" or something like that. But really you should make a mental note: you messed up earlier by not qualifying.[/i]


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Solid advice.

I remember the "Why do you like me?" question. lol. Received that all the time in my pre-game days. As Vector mentioned, this is what qualification is for. Also, if this develops in an LTR or MLTR, occasionally repeat what you appreciate about her.
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