Cleaning House: A Note on girls with no-value
Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 2:47 pmHey guys,
I know many of us are here to get as many girls as we can before our 28,000 days are up, but we must raise our standards with every female conquest. Whether their pivots, homegirls, LTR, or Fuck buddies; we need to make sure that these women are bringing something of value to our lives (REGARDLESS OF THEIR LOOKS).
Just take a moment and reflect on all the women in your life (who are not family). Think of what you do for them and what they do for you. Are these relationships an equal exchange? Is that platonic "friend that is a girl" puting gas in your tank or food in your belly when you take her to work everyday? Is that girlfriend getting the bill at least once out of the 5 times you take her out for dinner?
It is common PUA knowledge that women view men as monetary, social, or entertainment resources. The game was created to make women feel as though they have EARNED these resources from us, which creates attraction. I know after feelings and familiarity are developed with a women any PUA can lose sight of that. So I challenge you gentlemen by simply having the balls to challenge the women in your life.
If that LTR is not contributing something to the relationship besides a constant supply of sex, then its time to tell her to step it up. If that homegirl is having fun on your dime all the time, then its time for her to take you out lunch. If that girl you've been dating for MONTHS and spent hundreds of dollars of your money is still giving you LMR, then its time to take someone else out. Some of these women will sometimes refuse to step THEIR game up. Some might even get mad and not want to hang out with you again. If this is the case, we have the balls TO WALK AWAY like a true alpha man would.
This type of attitude is easy to keep in their first in the first stages of attraction but is difficult to maintain in a long term relationship with a women. Yet, we must assess the relationships on a logical level sometimes to make sure that we are not being taken advantage of and are being respected as equals. Together, I hope we can continuely fight that AFC that lurks deep inside all of us and keep the pussy off of the pedestal.
SPLASH
Swaggot
I know many of us are here to get as many girls as we can before our 28,000 days are up, but we must raise our standards with every female conquest. Whether their pivots, homegirls, LTR, or Fuck buddies; we need to make sure that these women are bringing something of value to our lives (REGARDLESS OF THEIR LOOKS).
Just take a moment and reflect on all the women in your life (who are not family). Think of what you do for them and what they do for you. Are these relationships an equal exchange? Is that platonic "friend that is a girl" puting gas in your tank or food in your belly when you take her to work everyday? Is that girlfriend getting the bill at least once out of the 5 times you take her out for dinner?
It is common PUA knowledge that women view men as monetary, social, or entertainment resources. The game was created to make women feel as though they have EARNED these resources from us, which creates attraction. I know after feelings and familiarity are developed with a women any PUA can lose sight of that. So I challenge you gentlemen by simply having the balls to challenge the women in your life.
If that LTR is not contributing something to the relationship besides a constant supply of sex, then its time to tell her to step it up. If that homegirl is having fun on your dime all the time, then its time for her to take you out lunch. If that girl you've been dating for MONTHS and spent hundreds of dollars of your money is still giving you LMR, then its time to take someone else out. Some of these women will sometimes refuse to step THEIR game up. Some might even get mad and not want to hang out with you again. If this is the case, we have the balls TO WALK AWAY like a true alpha man would.
This type of attitude is easy to keep in their first in the first stages of attraction but is difficult to maintain in a long term relationship with a women. Yet, we must assess the relationships on a logical level sometimes to make sure that we are not being taken advantage of and are being respected as equals. Together, I hope we can continuely fight that AFC that lurks deep inside all of us and keep the pussy off of the pedestal.
SPLASH
Swaggot