Dallas PUA

I play in a band in my hometown. We're well known and I can go to nearly any club in town and pull puss. Great , woo hoo, perfect, I can play the "im in a band card". It's gotten old. I cant get any type of relationship out of it. I'm a fantasy, a bad boy, someone to cheat on their boy friends with. Since this has started to happen, I can't get an actual date after the fact. I can fuck em, but im not the "dating kind" or wtf ever.
Is this some type of regret on the womens part? "I met this guy three hours ago and I fucked him. Hes going to think im a whore." this is my guess. Any suggestions on how not to make them feel this way, or is it a line you cross if you seal the deal on the first night? Please im not trying to be a jack ass, just wanting to know how to make the game work better for me.

Thanks,

Wylde