First dates
Posted:
Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:29 pmby Alger
I realized that a big mistake I make is I forget that gaming and PUA still is important during a date as much as it is when meeting a girl for the first time. What is a good way to keep your pua frame on while on a date?
Re: First dates
Posted:
Sun Jan 17, 2010 7:54 amby Scoundrel
It is a little different. When you are first meet them you have to be fairly high energy. But, on a "date" you can be a little more relaxed and laid back. You're in comfort or rapport now.
What I like to do on dates is plan it so there are several stops. Maybe you first meet at a coffee house. Then you bounce to a pool hall. While shooting pool you can play the question game. Bowling is another good one. Anything where it's not to loud and the two of you are DOING something instead of just watching something.
After that I like to have a light meal at someplace like IHOP or Denny's. If you can find a mom & pop place like that it's better IMHO.
After that I'll take her to see a Jazz or Blues band.
During the date you want to seed the next place you want to take her. Over sell it a little. And through the date you have to be escalating kino. I cannot stress the importance of kino enough.
I hope that helps.
Cheers