facebook, women juggling, collateral damage, HELP!

[bigdprince]

Ok... I don't post much. I go through serious ups and downs. I'm relationship guy that comes out broken..... is depressed for long time... sucks with women.. get's over it... builds myself up and like a magnet gets slapped with pussy until I have a new girlfriend.

When I get in the zone it's scary scary dangerous. Literally this weekend I probably met 40 new people in 3 days. That included number and facebook exchange. This included men and women. Building the social circle. Worried about some of these girls seeing facebook flirting... etc..

Here comes the problem.. I'm getting serious interest from 3-4 women off the bat. I have 10 or so on the hook. All of these women are good good looking 7-8.5 women. I'm just starting out again.. after 2 year relationship and it's like these girls want to move TOO fast. And I enjoy it.. because I like attention, I like sex, and I like comfort. But, damn have you ever wanted to see what you could get? How do I stiff arm a girl, still get sex, and still try to raise the bar? How do I hold out, but reap the benefit.. how do I hedge? This is my social circle.. and these women get pulled in..

Is this impossible to do? Or is it a get laid and move on thing?

The last 2 nights I've gone to the club I've been talking to hot girls and this same girl comes out and AMOGs or cock blocks me. She is hot.. and I like her.. but, damn... I'm worried she is shutting down these other girls? I'll get pulled off by her and it's hard to resist getting your dick pounced on for an hour.

2 nights ago when she came up and pulled me away from a girl that's more my style not any hotter.. but, cute 5 footer and latina we had some serious iois and interest going. The thing was I didn't know short latina was going to be there even though I invited her the night before ( she had been with a date and showed interest ).. however, hot tall girl I knew would be there. And.. had I blown her off I was an ass. So, I got to get hot tall girl and watch cute short girl dance with another guy all night long. I was kind of pissed. I did get short girls number and circled back to let her know I was sorry and wanted to have got to know her better.

Granted.. I did meet a group of international NANNYS... a brazilian, slovakian, asian, and mexican. Did number exchange with them and already the brazilian is looking me up. Mojo.. we need to start DALLASNANNIES.... ( now that I posted this.. it's a binding partnership ).

Anyhow.. If I can lock down with one girl and have a damn good night.. I'm doing it... it's fun, it feels good. I ended up at a secret after party at a restaurant dancing until 5AM with tall girl and then taking her away for a nice finish... But, how do I not lose out because of one or two girls showing SERIOUS interest? Anyone else understand what I'm talking about?

Thoughts?

J

[Scoundrel]

I've read this twice and still I don't understand what your question is.

[Gamble]

I think he's asking for some tactics on juggling MLTR's and FB's.

The first piece of advice that I have for you is to only invite one HB to a party at a time unless they know each other previously and they both know that you are fucking both of them. Otherwise they are gonna AFOG (instead of AMOG, lol) the other girl to secure their rights to the dick.

Second, always know the last time you talked to your girls. This was a hard problem for me at one point, but I got a system down where I put the date of the last time I talked to them in my phone beside their name. It helps me remember when I need to talk to them. I try to never go more than three days without checking up on them. It lets them know that you are still around. And this way, you can manage your time with each of the girls.

Third, always let them know that you are seeing other girls and that you aren't exactly looking for an exclusive relationship at that time, but that you can see where it leads. This prevents drama if they do see you with another girl because you're not leading them to believe that they are your only interest.

And last but definitely not least, NEVER NEVER NEVER let them have a chance at going through your phone. Reason being is that no matter how many times you tell them that you are seeing other girls, they will get pissed if they see proof in your phone. For some reason they usually don't get nearly as pissed by seeing you with another person as they do by finding out through your phone.

Hope this helps,
Gamble

[bigdprince]

YES YES.. yes it does.

Any more advice for management or juggling when your in field sarging and for whatever reason there is a mix of ladies that know you? My buddy says to make up excuse to one and bounce the other. But, if your partying and there just happens to be more than one option it gets dicey.

I actually politely apologized to one girl.. and said, I'm really sorry... I really wanted to get to know you better and just didn't know you would be here. I invited her yesterday... let's catch up another time.

But, I'm still worried about this.. and I want to get where I'm PRESERVING my hard work. Not screwing it up.

Thanks gamble...

[Scoundrel]

I'd just tell them to chill out. You are a free agent and you'll spend time with who ever bitches the least.

[Gamble]

Agreed.

[Alger]

I agree with them. I feel that the more you hesitate no matter what the situation is it will only hit you rock bottom. Any type of hesitation is always the worst cockblock, as well as overthinking. Remember what Neil Strauss said "he who contemplates masterbates."