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Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 4:27 pm**

Over the weekend, Alger was asking Trib and I a few questions about why certain tactics and techniques didn't work for him. The reason we sometimes encounter things that don't work for us is because those things cannot coexist with our personalities. We can learn as much as we want from other people but we have to choose, out of the things we learn, what will work best with our personality. You cannot lose yourself in the material that you put in your mind. You have to simply refine what you already have. If you try to force material that doesn't seem natural to you, you will lose your sense of self.

I went to a club with some new private when I was stationed in Florida. He saw me approaching and opening sets and I think I may have gotten a phone number that night (I might have been in the game a month at this point, so a phone close was kinda a big deal to me then.) He asked me what I was doing, and I told him I about the community. He started using some of my weak routines that I was using at the time, and he kept getting shot down. He practiced them and practiced them, and still no luck. Then he found one that fit his personality and it was money.

My point is: Everyone is born with sharp teeth and claws.
Our objective is the same: Kill the bunny.

Everyone's teeth can be sharp, but nobody's teeth are shaped the same. You might have to use a different kind of sharpener made for your teeth.

Go get the bunny.

Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:02 pm**

So, to sum up, anything can work as long as you are congruent with what you are saying. I agree.

Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:11 pm**

Exactly, but there is no way that you can master all aspects of seduction. A main reason for this is that some aspects contradict others. You have to find the things that do not contradict your personality or you actions.

Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:21 pm**

Yes. We each must find our own way. However, there are some basic things everyone should be using. Like coming from a place of giving value to the interactions with women. Or a basic understanding of body language and the signals you're sending.

Some guys are naturally funny, some are naturally quiet. We must each learn to use our strengths to their best advantage instead of trying to overcome any weaknesses.

Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:53 pm**

Exactly! Sharpen the teeth you have. Don't pull them out and try to wear dentures! Dentures are never as sharp as the real thing and they might fall out while you are killing the bunny.

Then the bunny laughs at you cause you're a bear with no teeth!

Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 7:30 pm**

LOL I like your metaphor.

Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 8:35 pm**

One thing I might add here is to try Tapping (EFT) with stuff you are not congruent with or would never see yourself doing.
If you don't know what Tapping is, check out Magnus on Youtube doing his Tapping routines. I also like Brad Yates who is also on Youtube.

Magnus wrote a post on how to make things congruent using this technique to integrate material.

I'm going to repost his post on this here...

Magnus wrote:

There are a lot of great dating, seduction, and pick-upproducts out there, covering every possible aspect ofmaking yourself a better man, seducer, and lover.

Some are better than others, but on the whole there is something tolearn from all of them - depending on where you arestarting from (as a rule anything I link to onBristolLair.com is something I have personally gainedfrom).

However many guys are buying product after product and not making nearly as much progress as they could.

Even worsethere are guys on filesharing sites downloading everything they can get their hands on, and putting it on their harddrives without even looking at it. Heh, that was me not so long ago. At one point I hadpretty much read, watched, or listened to every availablepick-up product. Now there are far too many for anyone toget to that point, but that is irrelevant, because there isso much overlap and repetition from product to product youonly really need to look at a small proportion of them.

Most guys will consume a product, and move forward only atiny amount. In fact, as they gather more information,some guys actually get more confused than they were, andmove backwards! So, they get more desperate for moreinformation, and move on to the next product. Imagine if ALL the info in ANY ONE of those products hadbeen downloaded COMPLETELY and UTTERLY into your brain(have you seen the Matrix? LOL).

You would never ever need another product. Well it never happens like that, but you might have noticedthat some guys benefit more than others from reading aparticular e-book or attending a particular workshop.
Why is that? It's because different guys have different belief systemsto start with. One guy will read the e-book, nod all the way through andinstantly be able to go out in the field and apply thestuff. Another guy will read the e-book, nod a bit but continuously be thinking they could never do it... and whenthey get out in the field they will be absolutely right.

The first guy just happened to have no relevant success barriers to doing what the book told him. Can you imaginebeing that guy? For the second guy, there will never be a product that willsolve his problems, he'll keep looking for it until hegives up.
Most guys are probably somewhere in between. Constant challenging of your own beliefs, and continuous repetition of the same ideas will get you there. But there is a better way, and it is of course, Tapping.

When you are studying a particular product, look for theresistance you have towards it. When you find yourself thinking "I could never do this" -tap it. When you find yourself disagreeing "girls aren't like that"- tap it. When it just starts depressing you "I'm not funny enough to do this" or "I'm not good looking enough" or "I'll neverunderstand this" - tap it.

Then when you get out in the field, look for the negativefeelings and beliefs that stop you putting into practicewhat the book tells you to do, and tap them - tap themuntil you can do what it tells you. Don't tap a few beliefs, find a few small changes butdecide tapping doesn't work - KEEP TAPPING until you get the result you want.

Most people have hundreds if not THOUSANDS of negative beliefs to tap away. Tapping them away will always be faster than pushing through them. Read the e-book, tap away the conflicting beliefs. Watchthe DVDs, tap away the conflicting beliefs. Get out andtalk to girls, tap away any negative feelings that come up when you do so.

The more you do this, the more you will become the guy who literally can download an e-book into his mind without any resistance.
Tapping is the best tool I have found for releasing yournegative beliefs, and if you know a little bit about howyour mind works, and are happy to experiment on your own,this very newsletter gives you enough information to get started.

If you want more detailed instructions, my book could bethe last one you ever need. It can help you apply theideas you have learned from all my friends who areproducing great products on the specifics of beingattractive.

Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 8:50 pm**

Tapping is a placebo.

Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 8:53 pm**

Scoundrel wrote:Tapping is a placebo.

Says you. I like it. It worked for me.

Posted: **Wed Oct 14, 2009 8:56 pm**

Scoundrel wrote:Tapping is a placebo.

Dude, what's with the flaming?

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