Sexual Tension, Attraction Spikes and The Doggy Dinner Bowl

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I was on a plane going home to Dallas from Las Vegas when I spotted her. She was a cute little brunette in her 20's with her bags at her feat and her cell phone in front of her.

I sat down a few seats from her. She looked at me.

Everything in me wanted to talk to her. But I didn't...

Instead I started reading a self improvment book and let the tension ride just to see if she was game.

She broke the ice with me. We had a wonderful conversation before getting on the plane.

This is one form of sexual tension and a great example. I'll talk about others in this article.

First, please read David D'Angelo's article on Sexual Tension and that will give you an idea of what it really is.

But don't stop at cocky funny because there is more.

The other word thrown around for sexual tension is "response potential". Just think of it as a kind of "reaching for".

The reason it is so hard to describe or detail is that it is an EMOTION. Emotions are not easily described.
Describe laughter. Its a bizarre behavior that probably descended from an earlier primate? behavior. See what I mean?

Speaking of laughter, can anyone tell me what laughted does to sexual tension?

If you said its a release, then you are correct.

Alot of guys and perhaps me when I'm not full-on will go around and laugh at their own jokes as if to say "this is funny.". The problem with this is that it deflates sexual tension.

One of the keys to holding response potential at high levels is holding back on things like that.

More Important Than Attraction Spikes?

I just want to bring up one point here and that is that sexual tension is more important than an attraction spike.
An attraction spike being when she giggles or sends out IOI's.

Those are momentary. They fade fast.

You can still have those but just remember that sexual tension (response potential) is a longer spike.

Its longer because it builds and builds.

This may be one reason many jokers and guys who use humor too much do not get girls to stick aroud. The spikes are just up then peak, then fade off.

If you have no clue what I'm talking about here, I apologize.

If you've ever experienced a woman getting attracted to you very fast and then laughing or smiling then you've experienced an attraction spike.

Read Tyler Durden's about BT Spikes.

Tension Leads to Attraction

The reason the sexual tension is more important is that it as it builds, the girl becomes aware of it and is uncomfortable.
At some point the tension will reach a peak. I'm going to suggest that this peak is the doggy dinner bowl look.

Theory. Sure.

Shoot me. K?

The Doggy Dinner Bowl (DDB) look was introduced by Ross Jeffries a long time ago and it is very valid.

This peak can be seen with dilated pupils, playing with hair, licking lips, and sometimes touching herself and you.

The cool thing about this peak DDB is that it is marked by suggestability as well as high compliance.

Here is where Mystery's devastating like "Would you like to kiss me?" is very useful.
Of course, isolation is important so you would want an isolation statement like "Let's go outside and enjoy the air" or something equally plausible.

The key here is "the excuse". And realize that if you have those big pupils, she may very well follow you if you start walking.

Everyone please go out and look in girls' eyes, ok. Start with the blues and greens and work your way to the browns/blacks.

Then, SOI after you have kissed her. And that should be good, logistics being the only hurdle left.

I wanted to double back and talk a bit more about sexual tension because its so important.

Some things that can generate sexual tension are:
- Pregnant pauses (see Mystery)
- A distracted look
- Takeaways. (remember, you have to have it between you two before you can take it away An Axium!)
- Pauses in talking "I didn't realize.......up until now.....why is it so fucking dark in here?"
- Bait- Hook -Reel - Release. (See Mystery).
Do this with your body as well as your words. Do the takeaways and be a little vulnerable as you do them.

The point of this is to make her like a cat who wants to pounce on a moving string or bug.
The cat's eyes focus on the object and finally it pounces.

- Use Lockin's to give that "seduce me" body language as you do the other stuff.

Just a few of these will be devastating if done in proper timing. Just when is proper timing? How the hell should I know!!! Just look for the feedback.

If you do it enough, you get a sense of it. If not, just keep trying.

Focus less on words and more on the feelings and the body language.

Don't look too try hard doing it. If she's standing there, she's attracted enough just watch the eyes and the body language.

The cocky funny stuff is also good but I would only throw in one of those eary on and then be more masculine and alpha with her.

You can also include an eye gaze routine in your arsenal of a routine stack.
Examples: A. One might be Mystery's number guess routine where he says "look at me....look at me"

B. Something like a game where she fails and you say "Ok....concentrate....now look me in the eyes...."

If you can, try to calibrate the spikes. The quick attraction spikes and the long sexual tension spike with its peak with the DDB.
Watch the body as well.

This is a great way to see if your stuff is actually hitting versus her ignoring it.

Can this be mis-applied? Yeah. I just gave you a bunch of ideas that took me a few years to figure out. Even I miscalibrate.

Sexual tension is one of the hardest things to get down.

But you know it when you feel it.

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