The Signal

[Tribulus1000]

I'm gonna talk a little theory here but it will sound mostly like "old school" advice.
I'm also going to be taking this to the field and actually doing it.

*This is not a comprehensive list by any means but is rather a basic outline of what generates attraction.

Overview:

The Signal

<-----Dress/grooming-----Smile/Eye Contact------Body/Physique----Health----Sexuality----Body Language------Attitude


What is the signal?

Imagine yourself as a radio transmitter or radio station broadcasting songs or talk radio.

Like most radio stations, you have a particular frequency or carrier wave.

In order for someone to "pick up" on your signal, they have to be "in tune" with you.

Ok, so far so good.

Now, if your male sexuality that you broadcast to females was the signal, what components would enhance it?

What would make you attractive?

Now, I'm talking you, alone.

Not social proof. Not pickup lines. No amogging. Not even approaching. This is non-verbal stuff we're talking about.

What makes you, as a man, attractive?

THE BODY / PHYSIQUE
If one looks at attraction as a signal, the body itself is the conduit.

If the body is out of shape, too fat, too skinny or too tired, the signal will be compromised.
There will be too much interference from other feelings like aches and pains or being tired or feeling out of place.

Example, have you ever seen someone who is in pain or who is lying in a hospital emergnecy room, a person who is bored, or someone who is depressed or so angry they're out of control?

If that person was female, does that make her look sexy? As they say in spanish, "no."

In a similar way, we give off "feelings" that tell others how we are feeling.

If I'm too tired and should go home, I have no business at the bar trying to approach girls.

I should just give up because "my heart isn't in it."

On the other hand, if I'm feeling vibrant and positive, that is the best time to go to meet females.

Bottomline:
Working out or getting in shape helps you look better, feel better and project a signal better.

Working out is the #1 way to increase your signal and make you feel more sexual.

It doesn't matter what you do. Lift some weights or run. Play a sport or dance.
Anything to get the body moving is good.

Also, you can talk about this with people as a new hobby.

HEALTH
To increase overall health is good.
Going out four nights a week, drinking alot and going to IHOP each night then waking up at 2pm the next day puts a strain on the body.

Health = attractive.

Everything that makes a girl attractive is also a health indicator. This is also true for us guys.

Along with exercise, take vitamins and eat good foods.

If you have any doubts here, watch the movie Super Size Me.

* This also includes taking care of your skin with cleansers and moisturizers and masks.
Don't think this is "girly", it only makes you look better.

* Also whiten those teeth. Nobody wants to kiss a guy with yellow or coffee stained teeth.

SEXUALITY

What do I mean here? Well, I mean look like a man. Act like a man.

Now, some guys are naturally effeminate looking or they look "boyish" or they have a tendency to bend their wrist making them look gay or like a broken winged bird.

I can't go into everything here but suffice it to say that women want a dominant, sexually attractive guy.

Women look at guys butts and they also have peripheral vision that is better than ours, so they can check out your package without you even realizing it.
If you catch a chick sideways glancing at you, its probably because she wants to get caught.

Just some examples off the top of my head...

- Cow Poke Stance. Point to your package.
- Stand legs spread apart.
- Be agressive with eye contact.
- Wear clothes that enhance your ass. Wear boots.

BODY LANGUAGE

Yeah this is probably talked about enough on message boards to where you get the idea.
Learn to express yourself as well as read body language.

In other words, stand up staight. Don't bend your wrist. Don't look submissive. Shoulders back.
Walk like a man.
Draw attention to your package.

I'm less interested in listing off a bunch of stuff as I am putting this in the context of an overall signal.

ATTITUDE

YOU ARE THE SHIT.

Basically, if you don't believe you're the best, you won't get laid.

The attitude is the equivalent of the song on the radio being broadcast with our radio station analogy.

The idea here is that you should have enough testosterone flowing in your veins (from working out) that you feel powerful.

Put that to work mentally and believe that you can do it.

Just the working out alone should do more than half the battle. That's why working out is so important.

You just want to project that feeling of "I AM THE MAN" to everyone. Be nice. Smile.

I had a post one time called America's Next Top Model Technique. It basically boiled down to acting as if everything out there was there to support you rather than bring you down.
I named it that because the show's photographer gave that advice to a model who was doing a photo shoot on a boat that was rocking back and forth in the ocean.
Perturbed, she could not concentrate and project her feelings into a good photo.
So Nigel Barker gave her the advice of acting as if the world was working FOR her rather than AGAINST her. The shot went good after that.

SMILE / MAKE GOOD EYE CONTACT

Look up and read Captain Jack's Clown Grin article if you have not read it.

Smiling is an easy way to generate attraction. Period.

Holding eye contact is also very sexy and also shows dominance. This is analogous to someone being "in tune" with your signal.

DRESS AND GROOMING

Dress nice. Dress to fit your body. As a friend told me once: "Try to look better than most of the other guys in the place."

This also sends another signal that you probably have some money. Women may not be able to see your car or house but they can definitely see your clothes.

There are too many good things to list on this. So I won't.

Also get a good haircut and trim those nails.

Gunwitch said "She should be thinking about you putting your fingers inside her and not about how putting your finger insider her would give her an infection." Gee do you think girls think that way? Now you do.

ADDITIVE EFFECT

If you look at all those things we just talked about, you'll notice that they feed on eachother and cause an addive or even multiplicative effect.

Take a goofy guy who is overweight, doesn't feel good, is slumped over and makes no eye contact, doesn't smile and bends his wrist like a gay guy...
Now undo all those things and make him stand up straight, dress cool, get in shape, make eye contact and smile.

The most important piece is working out or running or dancing....anything that gets you moving.

If you have trouble projecting good vibes, do some meditation or get a self hypnosis cd.

Why the order of items?

Because its obvious that dress is on the exterior (of your body) and your attitude is on the interior. Get it?

The analogy of a signal generated from you and projected outward is being effected by all those things.
Its a processional effect. A well dressed guy is attractive. So is a guy who makes good eye contact and smiles.
The attitude behind all of it is where its at but girls will sometimes not even consider a guy unless he's smiling or has on nice clothes.

Is that it?

Perhaps that's just the basics of it. Those are the ones I came up with. Come up with some more and test them out.

Some guys have a "lucky shirt" and some guys think having an incredible car or power suit helps.

Alot of this is subjective.

-T

p.s. Comments are welcome.

[Scoundrel]

Good stuff T. Thanks for posting it.

[Tribulus1000]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJWJhGBvPmM

There are several videos from a show that aired on Discovery Channel called "The Science of Sex Appeal".

Highly recommended.