overprotective BFF

[asianaryan]

so there is this girl I like, but her BFF is this guy who I think is gay. As you already know, gays tend to be overprotective of their friends. How can I overcome this obstacle? Do I have to become friends with the gay guy because I would rather not.

Also, what are some good random texts I can send to girls?

[Scoundrel]

Yes, you have to become at least friendly with her gay friend. If he likes you he'll push her into your arms! Unless he's not gay and really wants her for himself. In which case you can ignore him.

I can't help you with texting. I don't use it much.

[Dax]

Making friends w/ the gay guy is a must... you will probably soon figure out that many, many girls have gay friends. Yes they are over-protective and yes they may be gay, but they could help you out tremendously w/ their friends.

Some folks on this thread will disagree, but I think we can learn a lot from observing gay guy's interactions w/ females. They are great at communicating w/out conveying hidden agendas and they are great at building rapport and trust...of course their energy level is usually solid also. Botton line is...the more we see and experience, the more able we are to construct a solid and effective foundation.

[declan.dublin]

Dax make's a great point on women's interaction's with gay guy's, have you ever been chatting to a girl and she's just not interested and then you tell her your gay/ have a girlfriend and all of a sudden she's all over you!

Anyway yes the unfortunate thing is you will have to befriend the guy to get the girl, he will have a lot to do with your interactions with the girl, if he is gay. If he's not gay you still have o befriend him. He's her bff you need to get in with the friends.

In relation to texting her random stuff, just try think up random statements like, "would you prefer to be hte back end or the fromt end of the horse at a fancy dress party?"

Dublin