Dallas PUA

So there is this girl in my block at uni that i have already laid. was drunk at the time and ever since she has been hot and cold with me. does anyone ever feel like they are back at beggining? As in i feel like i have to start the whole process again, negging etc!

well, you should already know what you need to do to get this girl again. You're supposed to run through the motions each time you interact with the girl.

I'm losing every girl I hook that is worth keeping. It is very frustrating.

you need more comfort and investment of them into you. Have more reasons for her to want to come back.

Does there come a point in time where you just need to tell them you're in to them? I mean, at some point, they probably need to get some level of validation from you? I don't know. The pick-up community doesn't address relationships that much.

lol yeah for sure. How can a girl ever be interested in you if you never show any interest in her? Girls want to feel loved. Showing genuine interest in a girl is a good thing. The difference between a cool guy showing interest and an afc is that a cool guy only shows interest when she deserves it, whereas afc shows interest for no reason at all. There is nothing wrong with loving women. I mean if you don't why you in this?

isosceles cheese wrote:well, you should already know what you need to do to get this girl again. You're supposed to run through the motions each time you interact with the girl.

i see, fair enough! (this is the original greenboy by the way its just i forgot my password and all the new ones they sent me didnt work !)

Alphagame wrote:Does there come a point in time where you just need to tell them you're in to them? I mean, at some point, they probably need to get some level of validation from you? I don't know. The pick-up community doesn't address relationships that much.

don't tell them, show them. I've started to learn that speaking your emotions are futile at this stage of a relationship, it shows weakness in your ability to sexually attract. Take her.

Kit wrote:I'm losing every girl I hook that is worth keeping. It is very frustrating.

i empathise bro. girls are strange creatures, it seems to me the reason the good ones often get away is cos they know we think they are special.its hard to find a balence between treating them really well DHVing!