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cocky/funny...holy shit, this is me

PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 6:39 pm
by isosceles cheese
I just started reading up on it a little, and before I get started, does anyone have recommended reading before I just pick something?

so far the only girls I've really hooked with are sets where the girls and I just talk shit to each other. This might work for me with a little more direction.

Re: cocky/funny...holy shit, this is me

PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 6:48 pm
by Kit
isosceles cheese wrote:This might work for me with a little more direction.


Direction? You don't even turn over when I tell you to.

man

PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 6:55 pm
by DateDemon
I read a lot when I got started coaching guys, What I actually enjoyed more than the reading though is Podcasts. http://www.pickuppodcast.com is completely free and I love those shows. Maybe not as information packed as reading but more enjoyable

PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 8:17 pm
by playercool
I am pretty sure it is David Deangelo who coined the phrase cocky/funny.

Look up his stuff.

PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 8:28 pm
by El Fenix
I was cocky/funny long before I heard of David D.
I reccomend a little time in the service industry to anyone trying to learn this.
How much money you make(tips) are a direct correlation to hom well you work the people, and how much they like you.
You also learn to read people quickly, and develop rapport instantly.

At first, I put this aside, to learn routines and such in the community. It later dawned on me, I was not using one of the things I developed that had made me successful. Now, I'm a total smart arse in sets ;)

PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 9:50 pm
by Lion
Yes, cocky/funny is where it's at. It's the basis for everything I do. I read David D several years ago, way before I knew about the community, and it just stuck.

PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 11:51 pm
by isosceles cheese
El Fenix wrote:I was cocky/funny long before I heard of David D.
I reccomend a little time in the service industry to anyone trying to learn this.
How much money you make(tips) are a direct correlation to hom well you work the people, and how much they like you.
You also learn to read people quickly, and develop rapport instantly.

At first, I put this aside, to learn routines and such in the community. It later dawned on me, I was not using one of the things I developed that had made me successful. Now, I'm a total smart arse in sets ;)


I bartended at college bars/neighborhood bars/a gay bar for about 5 years, sold cars for a year, then I was a wine steward at a 4.5 star restaurant in uptown for 2 years, so I have that on lock. I'm pretty much a politician in my current profession with a federal agency, so telling senators and congressmen how its going to be, with a smile, is my forte. I guess I need to embrace this and run with it while killing the self-doubt and talk to women the same way i talk to people at work.

edit: now that I think about it, every time I end up essentially fighting/fucking withh a girl, we end up hittin' tha skins. Last night a girl had a double jointed thumbs, we ended up with me comparing her to a Labrador with webbed paws (but you can still be my bitch, lol), then a BJ on the patio at her friend's house...lol. She was a bad ass girl, who loves to fuck with people and be a tacky bitch, I love it.

Re: cocky/funny...holy shit, this is me

PostPosted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 12:00 am
by isosceles cheese
Kit wrote:
isosceles cheese wrote:This might work for me with a little more direction.


Direction? You don't even turn over when I tell you to.


Look, nobody gives a shit about your life or your situation. Nobody even cares that you have anal fissures. So, keep this shit to yourself, and get the fuck out. Better yet, print out what you just posted it, and send it to me so I can wipe my disabled grandmothers ass with it.

Re: cocky/funny...holy shit, this is me

PostPosted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 9:40 am
by The Lisenby Effect
isosceles cheese wrote:
Kit wrote:
isosceles cheese wrote:This might work for me with a little more direction.


Direction? You don't even turn over when I tell you to.


Look, nobody gives a shit about your life or your situation. Nobody even cares that you have anal fissures. So, keep this shit to yourself, and get the fuck out. Better yet, print out what you just posted it, and send it to me so I can wipe my disabled grandmothers ass with it.


7/10... maybe.

PostPosted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 9:44 am
by El Fenix
If you read over what playful disqualifiers are, I use as lot of those also.

Also, a great retract line, if you overstep is: I'm just giving you a hard time.