Dallas PUA

Hey guys. Well, I'm clearly having some issues.
I change from AFC to PUA every other day.
Unless I'm just an AFC who occasionally gets lucky.
I have oneitis for this girl who... it's weird... we hung out one time, watched movies, i ran some hard to get, she didn't bite... i fucked up and went in for the kiss although she didn't bite and we still ended up fucking around. After that, she told me she was still getting over her ex blah blah blah, i thought it was her blowing me off, so I said ok ok more fish in the sea, I'm done.
2 weeks later she is messaging me, texting me, calling me, actually saw me leave a class on campus one time and followed me to the next one to "just say hi". Then she was begging and begging to hang out with me and kept saying over and over and made it pretty clear "i wanna hang out and see your massive arms and see that sexy body". I was like WTF, she blew me off and now wants some? Like an idiot i went for it. That coming day we fucked like there was no tomorrow, from 9am when i should have been in class until 1pm when i should have been in football until 5pm when i should have been working until 10pm when i should have gotten off... We did the occasional stop, eat, talk, etc. but you get the point.
After that, it has been weird ever since, I keep telling my self, NO! Then she'll message me, hey cutie whats up... Then for some reason i dive at it, with talking too much or asking to hang out or basically ruining shit...

I no longer go to college parties when i should be soaking those girls up, I'm always checking my phone for text's. I'm on myspace like crack now hoping to get a message from her or some of the other girls i talk to. And when i do i reply with some dumb long message that i didn't intend to, talking too much, find my self saying sorry or jk alot. Things i know are not suppose to be done.

Idk, maybe i just need to start fresh and reread everything... and the myspace bit, I'm on the verge of shutting it down cause I'm on it so much.

Anyone have pointers or SOMETHING to tell me? If so and you feel you can help, you can also PM me if you don't want to reply on here. Thanks.

-Cris aka AFC!

Dude, let me tell you, when you are feeling slightly obsessed with a woman, then anyway you can "check up" on her will just kill you. You need to get out, and with someone who can kick your ass a little.

Skaldgrimnir wrote: someone who can kick your ass a little.

what?

Someone who can get you into gear when you are feeling AFC. Saying kick your ass was not literal.

When I am feeling stuck in a situation, or not living up to my potential, I try to get through it myself...but every once in a while, I need a "kick in the ass" from a friend.

i feel ya, like on 40 year old virgin when he flicks him in the balls, ha.

god I need a kick in the ass sooooooo bad. I've been pissed off about "wine girl" for good 2 months.

Tell you what. I work weekends, but I'd be more than willing to give either of you a kick out on the town during the week, if you'll do the same for me.

I'm still wrapped around the finger of one myself.

Skaldgrimnir wrote:Tell you what. I work weekends, but I'd be more than willing to give either of you a kick out on the town during the week, if you'll do the same for me.

I'm still wrapped around the finger of one myself.

i'd love that, but I'm really worried about fucking up other people's shit because I basically have no social skills and look like scrawny trailer trash. There's just so much pressure involved in this shit and the last thing I want to do is fuck up everyone else's shit, thn get to hear about it and think about it for the rest f my lfie.

isosceles cheese wrote:

Skaldgrimnir wrote:Tell you what. I work weekends, but I'd be more than willing to give either of you a kick out on the town during the week, if you'll do the same for me.

I'm still wrapped around the finger of one myself.

i'd love that, but I'm really worried about fucking up other people's shit because I basically have no social skills and look like scrawny trailer trash. There's just so much pressure involved in this shit and the last thing I want to do is fuck up everyone else's shit, thn get to hear about it and think about it for the rest f my lfie.

Let me guess.

When you do get close to a girl you tend to get the "Lets just be friends" speech?

Let me guess.

When you do get close to a girl you tend to get the "Lets just be friends" speech?

not at all actually. Once a girl shows interest, I usually kill it. I bagged a 3-on-1 about 2 months ago, just because the girls showed interest. Even though the motions are painful, I have always been able to squeak by and not get friendzowned.

Right now I'm really stuck on the idea that there is no way any of these women want me talking to them. I have shitty cars, only make OK money, I'm not very attractive, out of shape, and am generally mediocre. I'm like a base model car. Sure I'm reliable and get good mpg and just so happen to be RWD, but I don't have leather and nothing special.