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Cold approaching girls in line if ur VIP. Need some opinions

PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 7:48 pm
by Zephyr
I'm getting in VIP to this bar thats throwing a big party this weekend. Only problem is that my fraternity is throwing a big party too and all the girls are wanting to stay near campus. I'm not about to show up to this bar solo, especially since i've been invited. I want to make a good impression.

I figured I might as well look for a few cute girls waiting in line and get them to come with me. Now i'm SURE they would love to cut the line but how do i get them to stay with me for a while so I can get a #-close or maybe a few free drinks? How long do i need to talk to them, etc...

Anyone ever tried this? Gimme some ideas! Thanks!

PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 10:35 pm
by Kit
Good question.

I think of this similar to buying a woman a drink. In a way you could be upping her value while lowering your own.

Sure the VIP status ups your value, but as soon as you use it to get a girl in, you raise her value and lower your own because why is a VIP guy needing to get random girls in? He should have women already.

If I had to give advice based solely upon what I have learned so far, I would rub it in that you are VIP as you walk by the line. Say something like any of you ladies VIP status come along with me. Or stop and talk to an HB10 and say I'd like to talk longer but I'm VIP and I'm not standing out here in this cold a minute longer so if you have something interesting to talk about find me when you get in the club.

There are a million ways to play it but I think the whole reason you VIP status is to DHV so run with it.

If you use it to get a girl in, that's like buying her a drink. She may drink it and then spend the next 15 minutes talking to the guy standing next to her that didn't spend a penny on her - sipping on the drink you bought her the whole time.

PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 10:46 pm
by playercool
It's like saying you drive a nice car....pffffffftttt

Screw using that line.

Go to your frat party and get laid.

PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 10:55 pm
by Blue
playercool wrote:It's like saying you drive a nice car....pffffffftttt

Screw using that line.

Go to your frat party and get laid.


absolutely amazing. thats why we pay dues.


i agree. dont walk around telling girls you're VIP. saying that you are VIP implies that you normally aren't VIP. if you have to mention it, it loses its value.

you still can go alone and get girls from outside to go in with you. i agree with how kit said to hang around outside of the bar for a little bit and talk to girls waiting in the line. introduce yourself, be charming, start up conversation. then tell them that you're tired of hanging around outside and ya'll should go in. if they ask how you're going to all get in without waiting in line (and if you're sure you can get yourself and the girls in) just play it off and say something like "i dont know, lets find out." then go to the front and tell your name to the door guy/door bitch. there's your DHV, and you didnt even have to tell them about it.





zephyr, what school do you go to? remember, there will always be slutty drunk freshman at the fraternity party and you get to hang out with your brothers for life.

PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 11:13 pm
by Smirks
I've thrown many a Fraternity party, and well...you don't necessarily need to show up early.

If I were you I'd go to this new club kinda early to make your appearance. This could also be a selling point to get a girl ya know to go w/ you. Trying to pull one from the "normie" line is try-hard. Go early, stay an hour or two...then go to the Fraternity party. Some sororities/girls will already be there, but normally the ones worth it come later anyway.

You'll make your appearance and hopefully get VIP again, you'll have a story to talk about while in set, "hey so I went to check out this new club..." and you'll be a bit more energized and ready to party since you've got a bit of club vibe in you.

PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 11:16 pm
by Kit
Blue and Smirks both make good points. I like Blue's move a little better than mine.

P.S. You bastards stop quoting me.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 4:21 am
by Scoundrel
If a girl wants you to take her into the VIP you should make her jump through a hoop first. If you just give it her it has no value and she'll leave you as soon as she gets in. If you make her work for it she'll have more respect for you.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 7:54 am
by isosceles cheese
why not scoop up some girls from another bar and take them with you?

PostPosted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 9:56 am
by Kit
isosceles cheese wrote:why not scoop up some girls from another bar and take them with you?


Very good idea. He needs to first find out how many people, if any, he can take in with him as VIP so not to look like an idiot if he can't.

This gives him a perfect opportunity to build comfort through time distortion by moving from place to place.

Remember, if you're not leading a woman, you're following her.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 12:19 pm
by Zephyr
I dont know WHY i didnt think grabbing some girls from another bar. I'm an idiot. I'll try that and see how it works out.

And thanks for all the tips guys. makes a lot of sense. I'm learning!