Sex, seduction and the importance of music & lighting
Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 10:30 amOk guys, I've learned something about seduction and while others may already know this by heart, it was something I've only recently figured out.
About 2 months ago, I pulled a woman back to my house from the bars. I had just recently purchased a new stereo that allows my ipod to connect to it. Anyway, as we were fucking, she REALLY got into it when a certain song came up. I mean, she was going nuts.
Women are way more emotional than us. So if you prefer sex with music, it's like 10X more powerful with women.
That said, if you drag a woman back to your house, ALWAYS turn on some cool seduction music. In fact, before I go out, I turn the stereo on just in case I pull some tail to the house. That way, I don't even have to turn it on. It's already there as soon as we walk in.
When you get ready to start the heavy make-out session and seduce her, the right music can increase your odds dramatically. My personal favorite is The Cure - Mixed Up. This music is the best seduction music on the planet. Also, turn it up LOUD when you get ready to start the seduction. It helps a lot.
The other thing is, the darker, the better. Lights turned on everywhere in the house is not good. If you plan to seduce in the living room, keep the living room lights turned off. Maybe a hall light should be on.
I also do this now too. Before I go out, I set the light up such that there's enough to see what we're doing when we walk in and I don't have to touch a light switch. We can get drinks and talk with the lights the way they are when we walk in, but as for the living room couches, it's dimly lit.
As for the state break, basically, this is how it goes for me. We walk in, the stereo is already playing regular music from my iPod. We talk a little and get some beverages. When I get ready to start the seduction, I say "Hey, you should hear this. This is the coolest music. You like The Cure?" Then I walk over to my iPod, which sits in a stand above my TV, I punch the button a few times and its playing. (iPod is nice...there is no fumbling through a stack of CD's and all that shit) Then I turn it up loud. Then I grab her hand and drag her to the couch and say "Get your ass over here, you." Immediately start making out. A really good move is to sit her down on the couch, then straddler her, such that your knees are on the couch on the outside of her legs, lean into her, grab her face with both hands and kiss her.
The right music. Loud music. The right lighting. Helps a lot.
About 2 months ago, I pulled a woman back to my house from the bars. I had just recently purchased a new stereo that allows my ipod to connect to it. Anyway, as we were fucking, she REALLY got into it when a certain song came up. I mean, she was going nuts.
Women are way more emotional than us. So if you prefer sex with music, it's like 10X more powerful with women.
That said, if you drag a woman back to your house, ALWAYS turn on some cool seduction music. In fact, before I go out, I turn the stereo on just in case I pull some tail to the house. That way, I don't even have to turn it on. It's already there as soon as we walk in.
When you get ready to start the heavy make-out session and seduce her, the right music can increase your odds dramatically. My personal favorite is The Cure - Mixed Up. This music is the best seduction music on the planet. Also, turn it up LOUD when you get ready to start the seduction. It helps a lot.
The other thing is, the darker, the better. Lights turned on everywhere in the house is not good. If you plan to seduce in the living room, keep the living room lights turned off. Maybe a hall light should be on.
I also do this now too. Before I go out, I set the light up such that there's enough to see what we're doing when we walk in and I don't have to touch a light switch. We can get drinks and talk with the lights the way they are when we walk in, but as for the living room couches, it's dimly lit.
As for the state break, basically, this is how it goes for me. We walk in, the stereo is already playing regular music from my iPod. We talk a little and get some beverages. When I get ready to start the seduction, I say "Hey, you should hear this. This is the coolest music. You like The Cure?" Then I walk over to my iPod, which sits in a stand above my TV, I punch the button a few times and its playing. (iPod is nice...there is no fumbling through a stack of CD's and all that shit) Then I turn it up loud. Then I grab her hand and drag her to the couch and say "Get your ass over here, you." Immediately start making out. A really good move is to sit her down on the couch, then straddler her, such that your knees are on the couch on the outside of her legs, lean into her, grab her face with both hands and kiss her.
The right music. Loud music. The right lighting. Helps a lot.