Dallas PUA

We've all been through this. You get a girl out on a first D2 and low and behold, she's mentioning something, casually, to make you feel insecure. It ALWAYS happens.

Typically, it'll go something like this. "I have a friend who's a mechanic, blah, blah, blah" Or, "I have a friend who's a fireman. blah, blah, blah" It's always a male job function. Or sometimes they won't even classify the "mechanic" as a friend...they just say "A guy I know, who is a mechanic, blah, blah, blah."

Because, we all know, and if you don't know you need to pull your head out of your ass...straight guys don't have friends who are girls. As PUA's, we might have "friends" but in reality we're using them as pivots to help us look pre-selected (and we want to fuck these "friends", whether we show it or not). As for straight guys having friends who are girls...it simply doesn't happen. They know this. You know this. Everybody on the planet knows this.

So the poor, uneducated beta male, hears "Another guy I'm fucking...who happens to be a mechanic...blah, blah, blah."

Or another stunt they love to pull is to send text messages while they're on their first D2 with you. Or answer phone calls. Either way, it's a given, they'll NEVER say "this is my sister" or "this is my friend Jessica". Hell no. They're elusive about it. She's sitting there texting for the very purpose of seeing how you react. Will you ask "Who are you texting?" Or will you make some lame ass comment "A lot of text messaging, tonight, huh?"

The key here, and it's taken me a long time to realize this, when they do this shit, there is no other guy. Think about it. Women are petrified about being viewed as a slut. So, she's out on a D2 with you, she's obviously interested in you, attracted to you, she wants to make a good first impression with you, so why would she sub-communicate that she's fucking other guys??? But that's what this stupid little bitch is fucking doing. She's sub-communicating that she's fucking other guys and you're just another meaningless guy in her world.

Honestly, I don't know what they're testing for. I don't get it at all. They ALL want an exclusive relationship. They ALL push for it after a while. But if you sub-communicate too early that you want that, you're dumped on your ass.

Trust me, I've been dumped on my ass plenty of times for doing exactly that. To be quite honest, I don't think getting to this point, where it's now relatively easy to find find a girl who'll have me...it shouldn't have required this much effort. I mean, I was pretty much the same guy before I started studying pick-up. But I've had to re-mold myself into something else...its a lot of work and effort...I guess I'm saying I shouldn't have had to put in this much effort to get a girl.

I feel like I have a score to settle with women in general. I love them, but I hate them.

So that's where I am today. I'm a fucked up mess. But hey, I'm fucking three women on a regular basis and they all know it.

Why do they tolerate this? They want an exclusive relationship and there are MILLIONS of uneducated beta males (like me before I studied pick-up) who would gladly give them exactly what they want. But they won't have them and instead they choose a guy who's fucking other women???

So I guess writing this makes me feel a little better about being non-committal. Somehow, I feel like I'm doing something wrong by not committing. A sense of guilt. But I shouldn't. I'm not lying to anyone. Besides, they drew first blood, each and every one of them...on the first D2 with their stupid little jealousy shit tests (that I used to fail).

Thanks, all you ladies of the past, who's jealousy shit tests I failed. Thank you for dumping me. You created this. You created the guy you DO NOT WANT to fall in love with. The guy who's fucking other women while he's fucking you.

Alphagame wrote:But I've had to re-mold myself into something else...its a lot of work and effort...I guess I'm saying I shouldn't have had to put in this much effort to get a girl.

Man that sucks that you've put in all this work to better yourself and as a result you get tons of girls. I'm sorry man. On a side note, you should probably be concentrating on inner game and not on who drew "first blood". Take it easy Rambo.

yeah, im kind of going through the same thing. its a tough one.

but hey, they want it they got it. im just giving them what i think they want.

Alpha, theres a lot of truth in what you said. It's not politically correct, for sure. I wish things were different myself, but we deal with reailty as it is.

Alphagame wrote:Because, we all know, and if you don't know you need to pull your head out of your ass...straight guys don't have friends who are girls. As PUA's, we might have "friends" but in reality we're using them as pivots to help us look pre-selected (and we want to fuck these "friends", whether we show it or not). As for straight guys having friends who are girls...it simply doesn't happen. They know this. You know this. Everybody on the planet knows this.

I disagree with this part. It's totally possible, just few and far between.

From 8th grade until junior year of high school, most of my friends were girls. What happened after that? who knows.

Hey Alpha, it's the grammer police. It's spelled misogynistic, not mysogynistic. Only one 'y'.

Regardless, women aren't the scum of the Earth man, not even close. I'd hazard to say guys on this forum that have no real Game but are just keyboard jocks are the scum of the Earth.

I have a love hate relationship with women as well, I love to have casual relationships with them, I hate having serious, committed relationships. Unfortunately, I attracted the latter more often than the former...maybe it's because my dick tastes like chocolate.

Inner Game is the end game. Focus on that man and all your ill feelings towards women will melt away.

Bull Run wrote:maybe it's because my dick tastes like chocolate.

Like how you slipped that in.

JP

Bull Run wrote:Hey Alpha, it's the grammer police. It's spelled misogynistic, not mysogynistic. Only one 'y'.

grammar police here. grammar.

Alpha,

I think you are a nice guy inside and maybe you are feeling guilty and pissed the world is not so nice back at you.

I am beginning to see this in myself and discovering that being Nice is not such a good thing because it does leave you vulnerable to hurting.