Dallas PUA

I read a lot about how some people approach women that are taken. Do you guys have any fear that if the bf saw, shit would go down? I've always heard that supposed asian gangstars will start shit if you talk to their girl, even if they're dancing with another girl. Especially at clubs, it's harder to determine if they're single.
I used to make DAMN sure they appeared single before approaching them. I'm sure the chances of getting shot at a club are pretty low, but I'd rather be on the safe side.

YellowStarS2k wrote:I read a lot about how some people approach women that are taken. Do you guys have any fear that if the bf saw, shit would go down? I've always heard that supposed asian gangstars will start shit if you talk to their girl, even if they're dancing with another girl. Especially at clubs, it's harder to determine if they're single.
I used to make DAMN sure they appeared single before approaching them. I'm sure the chances of getting shot at a club are pretty low, but I'd rather be on the safe side.

If you're good enough the BF can't respond like that without losing a lot of value and perhaps the girl. I've made out with girls with their boyfriends right there.

Fuck asian gangsters. What is likely the case is someone is going to be trying to use fear & make you think they will do something.

Ive pissed so many people off and I NEVER back down yet I almost never get into fights. Besides you should be trying to be friendly with the amogs in the first place.

WF

Hmm, I didn't know that. Thanks!

Westfall wrote:Besides you should be trying to be friendly with the amogs in the first place.

WF

If you are confronted, do you say "We're just talking." or something like that?

*bows*

I used to work with a guy who was korean,and another who was Thai. They went to largely asian clubs (che and others) and would talk about all the fights. Maybe its a cultural thing, I'm not sure. Asian culture largely mystifies me, to be honest. I'd like to know more.

You do rarely see fights at most "white" bars, unless all the guys are trying to be gangsta or something. In which case, there are others places to go.

Hmm actually I just remembered an incident. My soon to be ex used to work at a karaoke bar always with a short skirt on, and I'd go there sometimes with friends. I guess they knew I was the bf. I just come with friends to have a good time and just kick it and relax.
So it's almost closing time, I go outside to get something from the car, and they walk out too after me. One guy confronts me, says something like "You got a problem with me lookin at your girlfriend?" I laugh and say no. I was pretty buzzed, and before I'm able to walk away, some guy on the side of me sucker punches me. I'm barely bleeding on the inside of my mouth. "wow real fair, a group of you are trying to beat up 1 guy."
edit: I've never even talked to the guys.
Also, recently some guy got shot and killed outside of a restaurant in Garland over a retarded argument.
IMO Vietnamese people are retarded sometimes and probably the most provokative, the gf is viet.

Hmmm... I Always went after the white Girls.

I never hit on asian girls in the middle of a circle jerk.
You know a few hot girls in the middle having fun surround by asian guys with a mean look as if they are going to punch you for breaking their circle of jerks.

With Vietnamese it is never a one on one fight... it is you verse everyone on your blindside.

I try to always analyze a mixed set and figure out the relationships prior to approach. Personally I find that unless it is the only set in the place its not worth it to hit on a guy's girl.

JP

Honestly, if a bf comes up and makes it clear that he's her bf...he'll probably feel good about himself seeing his gf get hit on initially. As long as you play cool w/ him and bow out, you shouldn't be in any danger of a confrontation.

I don't condone doing anything with anyone who isn't single. Period. If she doesn't tell me...that's her fault not mine. I believe in karma, and don't want that type of shit coming back around on me.

I'm actually not from the Dallas area, but rather the Cali area. In my opinion Gangsters will always be gangsters, in a sense that they'll always come in flocks to beat a guy down. Being an asian dude myself, I can say if you plan to pick up an asian chick, always say wassup to the guy first and "befriend" him. Gangsters have a territorial mentality-if they feel you're taking away something from them, they will start shit.

Thanks for the reply guys.
The reason I ask, is that most Asian girls come with a group of girls and guys.
Also, another reason I ask, when she says, "I have a boyfriend," as a shit test, most people seem to just avoid or retort that and keep going.