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First Date/Get Together locations?

Posted:
Mon Jan 28, 2008 6:01 pm
by playercool
Hello...
Just curious as what you guys usually do for a day 2?
I have one coming up with a girl I know very little about. Number closed her within 20 seconds of meeting her at Black Fin the other night and bounced. We have texted and that is it.
It will be a weekday night either Tuesday or Wednesday.
Suggestions?

Posted:
Mon Jan 28, 2008 6:20 pm
by Finesse

Posted:
Mon Jan 28, 2008 9:38 pm
by Alphagame
++++Number closed her within 20 seconds of meeting her++++
I'm predicting a flake on this one. If she meets you out, I'll be amazed! Especially if you can get it done via text alone without a phone call. Who knows, you may have figured out the solution to phone game...100% text!
Keep us updated on this one.

Posted:
Mon Jan 28, 2008 10:30 pm
by playercool
Haha I always use text then the day of make the phone call and talk for just a couple minutes. It seems to work. Save the convo for the night out. Keep in mind I always ask should I text or call. Some girls don't have text and you might make the mistake of texting them never to hear from them again. You think the number was a flake but all along she wanted you to call and had no idea you texted. This happened to me once on the best looking girl I have sarged to date. What a mistake...
We should take side bets if she flakes or not. Ive got 47 cents that says she doesn't. If you win I might have to pay you in installments though.

Posted:
Tue Jan 29, 2008 9:28 am
by Alphagame
Just be honest about whether she flakes. It isn't a reflection on you if she flakes. It happens to all of us. There's just no telling which girls have the stones to show up and which girls don't.
I've found that the older they are, the less likely they are to flake. At first, I was thinking it was because the 20-somethings are better looking and have more options. Still not sure, but I'm beginning to think the 30-somethings don't have fewer options, it's just that they're more self confident and they're more mature.

Posted:
Fri Feb 01, 2008 6:24 pm
by Rembrandt
I agree 100% about the women in their 30's flaking less, at least in my experience.
why women in their 20's flake more

Posted:
Fri Feb 01, 2008 9:06 pm
by TheScientist
A woman in her 20's is similar to a man in his 20's. The guy asks for the number and she gives it, partially for the gratification already attained in that. She gets the affirmation that she's attractive enough you get her number and you get the affirmation that she'll give it to you. In her 30's she's already been there and done that and if you get her number then it's for a reason. She is more confident, so she didn't need to give you her number just for the gratification.
About the location ...
I personally would start with a phone conversation. But if she's ready to meetup after just some texting then make sure you're ready to fuck quickly, so don't do anything too interesting, too involved, or too far from your place.
Re: why women in their 20's flake more

Posted:
Thu Feb 07, 2008 12:29 pm
by Dragon
TheScientist wrote:....after just some texting then make sure you're ready to fuck quickly, so don't do anything too interesting, too involved, or too far from your place.
HAha .... you're kidding right????!!!! I'm new. I take things literally.