Dallas PUA

Hello All...

I am in need of some advice.

Recently my social circle kinda collided with another social circle. We are all hanging out NYE. There are a couple cute girls who I haven't gotten to know yet. I was dead drunk the last time we all went out and I met them for the first time.

What I need is advice on how to approach and build attraction with them???

I have mad social proof with all the guys of the group and the female leader of the girls. But for some reason I currently have no game with the other females. It's almost as if I have to open them like they are strangers...well I guess they were the last time I met them.

How would you approach these females of the group? What would your opener be? How would you move on from there?

Thanks

playercool

So you know the lead female and some of the guys. You're in a good place.

I would probably buddy up to the lead female and do some attract game with the other girls.

So you need to do some subtle negs and make sure they are humorous. Nothing "mean".

For example, one girl the other night was wearing a beret and I said "You look so cute in your Pierre hat. We could put a mustache on you would be like Picasso! You can sell paintings and stuff."

Just make comments.
"How tall are you?" for tall girls. Then ask them to take their shoes off.

When you do this, be fun but laid back and cool.

Talk to the lead female and get her laughing. Tell a joke or something. Or tell her she needs to keep the other girls "in line".

When you first meet someone and no one has introduced you, don't stand there like a waldo. Say "You know who you remind me of?...Someone I should meet." (Shark)

You can also do some running jokes.

"We need to keep X girl in line."
"Whoa! Stop touching me."
"X girl needs to drink more/less"
"You talk alot."
"You blink alot."
"Do you do kareoke?"
"You know what I discovered the other day? Chocolate and wine together...umm umm bitch."
"You and I are totally opposite."

Anything they ask you, anwer "no." first.
Anything they tell you to do is met by another hoop.
Anything they "shit test" you with is met with a reframe.

This is all stock material but the best ones come from your own mind. After you practice some of the lines, your mind begins to come up with ones that are better.

The most important factor in all this is the body language.

So lets say Girl X has a spill on the floor. She gets up.
You say either "I don't know this girl." or "You can dress her up but you can't take her anywhere."
Then turn away slightly and then back. These are called roll offs.

Qualify by asking big open ended questions. Get the answer. Elicit values. Reward.
"What do you like most about this place?"
"If you could be anywhere right now, where would you go?"
"Where do you go on vacations?"

Answer gets a reward like kino and "I like that."or get the rock or a handshake.

If you find them starting to talk to you, you've done well. Try and isolate.