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Lost in thought

PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 10:45 pm
by Stryke
Hey I have a question for yall, well it was a situation I encountered: I saw a few girl friends of mine when I was walking with my friends I knew 3 of the the 4 girls and all of them think I'm this awesome guy well the 4th one was a friend of theirs and she seemed like the most down to earth hb9 im sure she gets hit on at least like 13 times a day. Anyways its not like I'm new to the game but for some reason I had all these threads running through my head and couldn't figure out which one to use so here was the conversation:

Girls:Hey!
Me:Watsup
Girls:blah blah hows school blah blah
Me:blahh blahh blah
Me: Don't be rude introduce me to your friend
Girls:Oh sorry this is Paula
Me: watsup shook hand (mind freeze so hot want to touch the hynie)
Me: (crap I know I'm supposed to say something I wonder if I should DHV story, crap all my friends might know I'm bulshittin', umm...maybe I should ask them to walk with us and I will talk to her along the way)
Me:Hey let's walk
Girls:We're waiting on our friends
Me:(crap, I don't want to wait on her friends with her, if i do it might be a DLV like we don't have anything to do)
Me:Boooo, were much funner than your friends well ur missing out call me later

So my question is how could I have done this interaction better so I could've have ended up with their new friend Paula. I can't ask the girls to help me out because one of them likes me so any help brothers would be appreciated

PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 11:11 pm
by zine
stop thinking so much! Good game is simple.
That said I'm going to be a hypocrite and tell you some things you could have done. Read them now, and use them only as a framework for responses you have later.

Me:Hey let's walk
Girls:We're waiting on our friends

you asked for compliance, they had a logical reason to not comply. I might tease them a little for it tho. "Wow you guys are sooo lazy (smiling)!... *look at them for a second* Haha it's ok tho now that you mention it I'm feelin lazy too. *pace around a second* Ok that was a longgg walk time for my massage! :p Alright I will give each of you a turn whoever gives me the best massage gets extra ty(zine) time!"

What I did here was turn it around. I made them comply back in a fun way. If they refuse to massage you be cool with it. The compliance battle ended up in a tie. Just continue on with normal conversation.

crap, I don't want to wait on her friends with her, if i do it might be a DLV like we don't have anything to do

lol stop thinking so much. Dlv or not something would have been better than nothing. Focus on what's going on in the present.