Dallas PUA

At some point in our lives, we'll all go to a strip club for one reason or another. I happened to be bused to one along with a bunch of frat guys after an ironically formal dinner: suit and tie. Anyways, PUA tactics apply at these strip joints just as much as they do on normal girls. Like normal girls, you don't spend money. So heres how to not spend a single dollar and get free lapdances.

1) Ignore them. Sit next to a friend and get into an involved conversation. Turn your body away from the stage and talk loud and emotionally

The response I got from the stripper was first her just dancing in front of me trying to get my attention. Next she says Hey look, I'm up here. I respond: I know! and I continue chatting.

Enough of this ignoring tactic got at least 4 different stripers to confront me personally to tell me that I pay attention. I told them that they weren't doing very well and that I wasn't impressed. Somehow, their interpersonal striper pride made them feel obligated to prove themselves, hence free lapdances. After she finished, I gave her a grade of a C+. I told her it was "above average". This time, the lapdance was twice as good and even more erotic. Basically, ignore the strippers, don't spend shit, and be the man. Period

Good post, tiesto.

I've recently started working on my strip club game, as I've decided I'd like to have some sort of relationship with a stripper. Just one of those things that I'd like to do.

When you went, did you sit on "Pervert Row?" The last I went, I did the ignoring thing, but I feel that I conveyed TOO much disinterest. I wasn't up close, and just kind of set back and I think that is what did me in. What kind of strip club is this? Topless? Fully nude? Classy? Trashy.

-z

well, im not goin to say much, but i would hope that if you are looking to start a relationship wiht a stripper (or even SNF one) you are sticking around the classier joints and out of the trashy ones.

myabe its just personal prefernce...

Tiesto. next time i'm just going to throw a dollar at one when they try to get my attention or talk to me when i'm talking to another guy and say "HERE, NOW ARE YOU HAPPY, get out of my face." haha jk but that would def work.

skin wrote:well, im not goin to say much, but i would hope that if you are looking to start a relationship wiht a stripper (or even SNF one) you are sticking around the classier joints and out of the trashy ones.

myabe its just personal prefernce...

Where's your sense of adventure?

j/k

gaming strippers is an admirable goal....let me speak from a great deal of experience that you DON'T for any reason want to date one.....or at least one which you will invest any type of mental or emotional energy. im currently dating 2 of them and they are the single most taxing, draining, and problematic women on the planet. sure they fuck like a dream, but if you think sex is the top of the chain when it comes to compliance or what you can attain from a woman you are selling yourself way too short.

in response to your way to drop them from their "buy a dance from me" game, you did well, showing active disinterest, next time try flipping the script on her

Stripper: "hey would you like a dance" or "hey buy a dance from me"
you: "oh baby--you can't afford me" then immediately roll off the topic and chat with your friend or roll into a routine stack on the stripper you will see the frustration (in a good way) build in her eyes that you just turned the tables and aren't impressed by her nipple tassles

Rainman wrote:let me speak from a great deal of experience that you DON'T for any reason want to date one.....or at least one which you will invest any type of mental or emotional energy. im currently dating 2 of them and they are the single most taxing, draining, and problematic women on the planet. sure they fuck like a dream, but if you think sex is the top of the chain when it comes to compliance or what you can attain from a woman you are selling yourself way too short.

I can second this. I've dated a couple strippers (back in my college years) and can speak from experience that they are no doubt a pain in the ass. Highly emotional, highly volatile. In addition to being difficult, they tend to have severe emotional problems. I've actually had them breakdown and cry in my bed after sex telling me these horrible stories of physical, sexual, and emotional abuse they've endured at the hand of their ex, brother, uncle, dad, etc. Horrible, horrible stuff. If that weren't enough, they're usually addicted to some type of drug. I once read a study on the lifestyle of strippers and porn actors/actresses that confirmed that all of the above is common in their world. Sad, sad shit.

Having said all of that, fucking a stripper is golden. They'll usually do whatever, whenever. BUT, I've had better sex without the baggage so I tend to stay away from strippers.