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Target too drunk?

Postby Fuzz » Mon Nov 12, 2007 2:04 pm

Okay, first off I'm still relatively new to this PUA thing. I had astounding results within the first two months of getting into it which seem to have dwindled recently. Anyway, I met the target through work (although we don't work together; she's a server at a little cafe/restaurant) and have had very brief interactions with her maybe once or twice. I saw her out at a bar last weekend, and she was with a friend of mine, so it she was very easy to open. But then it became incredibly obvious that she was vey very VERY drunk.

Throughout the course of the evening I switched venues a couple of times and would run into her. Whenever we talked, she didn't make much sense so I couldn't get into any material. From having known her previously she seemed like the kind of girl who maybe had some self-esteem issues, so I was too scared to neg, because in her state it was impossible to calibrate. The most I did was act as though I didn't understand what she was talking about (which was the truth) although at one point she negged me and then quickly apologized for it, but I had no clue she had done so until after she said she was sorry because the neg made no sense. There were definite IOIs, but I couldn't do anything with this girl. Plus I'm also a beginner. Loud music may have also been a factor.

Anyone know of a proper way to deal with this?
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Re: Target too drunk?

Postby Finesse » Mon Nov 12, 2007 6:45 pm

Fuzz wrote: But then it became incredibly obvious that she was vey very VERY drunk.


If youre getting IOI's and the girl is drunk you should have a 90% chance to at least get a handjob.

When the girl is drunk you dont have to run game because game deals with a womens logical consious ability to screen you. Something she already circumvented for you when she started IOIing you. Youre job then should have been to just escalate and lead. You dont have to neg drunk girls who are hitting on you, since they have already showed themselves as lower value.

Loud music should never be a factor.

If there is loud music, you just let your hips do the talking. :D
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Postby Fuzz » Mon Nov 12, 2007 7:03 pm

You're right, I'm probably over-thinking things. Thanks.
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Postby JohnnyBravo » Mon Nov 12, 2007 11:33 pm

Drunk girls are easy. Everybody knows that. You should have made her kiss to you make up for her neg. Or better yet, just grab her hips, pull her towards you and kiss her. Then isolate and escalate. Easy, easy, easy. Alcohol is the "easy button".
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Postby EL CHUPACABRA » Tue Nov 13, 2007 2:54 pm

JB was right on with that one... It's ok to move in hard... Just be smooth brother!
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Postby Westfall » Tue Nov 13, 2007 3:02 pm

Fucking a drunk girl is like beating up someone with Down Syndrome. Sure it's fun and all but it's so easy it gives you no satisfaction--no real sense of accomplishment.

Besides drunk girls are unattractive to me.

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Postby EL CHUPACABRA » Tue Nov 13, 2007 4:03 pm

true.. true..sloppy and true!
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Postby Bull Run » Tue Nov 13, 2007 6:21 pm

I think closing drunk chicks, ugs, or common stock pigs disguised as women set back your game. The time you spent 'gaming' these chicks, which should really take nothing more than just talking to them, could be used on better sets. Sure, sure you're chances of rejection drastically increase as you move up the quality ladder but none of us should be here to learn how to get low quality women. You learn absolutely nothing from closing a drunk chick because it doesn't really take a whole lot of skill. Have standards, always hold high value and stay away from the 'low hanging fruit.'

Disclaimer: All of us need a confidence boost from time to time in which case I can understand why one would, on occasion, swim in the kiddie pool. I just wouldn't make a habit of it.
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Postby Atlas » Mon Nov 19, 2007 4:23 pm

At that point dealing with her is cake. Anything you say sounds charming, and I bet if you were like, "Say sorry and give me an apology kiss" she probably would. Just make sure you can kiss
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Postby dubya » Mon Nov 19, 2007 4:31 pm

Westfall wrote:Fucking a drunk girl is like beating up someone with Down Syndrome.


Such a way with words you have.
I think I'm gonna say that to the next drunk girl I see.
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