Westfall posts some Ramblin' Nonsense on goals.

[Westfall]

I had a conv. with a girl I've been becoming more and more attracted to lately. This girl has a lot of qualities I really like and she seems to be pretty compatable with me, which is good because I'm kinda eccentric (some of you may have noticed).

I know people have a lot of different goals in the community, but I have recently decided that all I really want is one LTR with a good intelligent girl that can make me laugh, loves me, and is reasonablly loyal.

I don't want to be single when I'm 35. I would much prefer to have a LTR with one girl, even if it were monogamous than to have dozens of sexual encounters.

Here's the conv. The more I talk with this girl the more I like her. Thoughts? She didn't message me when she got back? Is that a bad sign?
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Francisco d'Anconia says:
Psst... I heard the dork patrol was looking for you, so be careful

Katie says:
lolohhh yeah? o

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Yeah, they're going to deport you to dorkland

Francisco d'Anconia says:
How as your weekend?

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I went to Shreveport and checked out the boardwalk there

Katie says:
it was alright i guess. i didnt do anything of too much excitement.. at all.. how was the boardwalk??

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Well this girl took me to Copeland's Cheesecake Bistro. Which was very good. But overall it was kinda borring

Katie says:
yeah i bet so lol

Francisco d'Anconia says:
What do you think the most important quality is in a romantic partner?

Katie says:
hmmm... well i like honesty and trust... but thats just me

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Those are good

Francisco d'Anconia says:
For me I think it is having someone that I will still find interesting years later

Katie says:
yeah thats very true

Francisco d'Anconia says:
It is so much more important for a girl to be sexy & excitting than hott

Katie says:
i agree

Katie says:
except with guys lol

Francisco d'Anconia says:
oh you just like hott guys then?

Katie says:
no.. i just agreed with you! lol

Francisco d'Anconia says:
We're incompatable then, I hate it when girls just like me for my body

Francisco d'Anconia says:
oh, never mind

Katie says:
hahaha

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I was having this discussion recently with a friend, and she noticed how people we both find dumb or borring are often in relationships

Francisco d'Anconia says:
It's like they are more common, so they pair up with other average people more often

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I've been single for almost 5 months because I can't find someone interesting

Katie says:
hmmm....

Francisco d'Anconia says:
of course being single is fun

Katie says:
well once you stop looking youll find her

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Meh, I'm fine being single until a quality girl shows up

Katie says:
yeah thats understandable

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I love the high mantainance ones that think I'm going to put up with their high-maintanceness because they think they're hott. Ugh!

Katie says:
hahaha i think girls like that are funny

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I'm mean to them.

Francisco d'Anconia says:
All a girlfriend is someone to have a lot of fun with. If a girl isn't fun, she's of no use to me

Katie says:
thats very true

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Yeah

Francisco d'Anconia says:
normally me and some friends take a trip every year and we each invite a girl, fortunately we're postponing it this year, which is good because I don't think I know anyone I really want to bring

Katie says:
lol that really sucks... i would go with you but im not sure if you want the dork queen with you

Francisco d'Anconia says:
haha, you're not the dork queen. You're the dork princess. You have to work your way up to queen

Katie says:
ohhh ok isee

Katie says:
ill take it either way

Francisco d'Anconia says:
We'll have to hang out sometime, you seem like you'd be a kinda fun travel partner

Katie says:
definitely

Francisco d'Anconia says:
But I have to screen you first

Katie says:
ohhhh yeah?

Francisco d'Anconia says:
At no point do I want to be looking at Chechen Itza (the myan pyrimd thingy--one of the 8th wonders of the world) and hear "It's too hot here. Let's go!"

Francisco d'Anconia says:
like last year

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Yeah, there are certain things I screen women for

Katie says:
woooow... i would never do that!

Katie says:
8th wonders of the world??

Francisco d'Anconia says:
one of the 8th wonders of the world

Katie says:
hmm

Francisco d'Anconia says:
They call it 7 wonders of the world becaues I had them take my name off the list

Katie says:
ohh i see

Katie says:
hmmm

Francisco d'Anconia says:
What's your favorite drink in the whole world?

Katie says:
wow... thats hard

Katie says:
i love water

Katie says:
lol

Francisco d'Anconia says:
haha

Katie says:
what about you?

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I Coke Zero

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Have you ever heard of Ted Baker

Katie says:
no

Francisco d'Anconia says:
It's a high end clothing retailer

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I went to the one in Dallas with my friend xxx (I never shop at those pretentious places)

Katie says:
is it good?

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I love the clothing, but Im not going to pay $180 for a shirt to impress anyone

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Gap or Areopastale for me

Katie says:
im more about american eagle ll

Katie says:
lol*

Francisco d'Anconia says:
anywho, the girl there made us drinks (Ted-tinis) and was really flirty. We both filled out this card thing, and she got my address off there and sent me a post card telling me to stop by and see her next time I'm in town

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Is that odd, or just cool

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I'm on the fence

Francisco d'Anconia says:
she didn't send xxx a card

Katie says:
wow id say thats funny... kinda odd but cool all at the same time

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I love the big cities

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Coolest city you've been to?

Katie says:
ummm... goiana or rio

Katie says:
i loved them both

Francisco d'Anconia says:
How was the tempature there?

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I totally want to live abroad later in life

Katie says:
well when i went it was mid 70's.. but dropped at night... its "winter" there

Francisco d'Anconia says:
There are so many fascinating places in this world. One lifetime just isnt enough

Katie says:
it really isnt

Katie says:
but i have to take a shower so will you be on still?

Francisco d'Anconia says:
I might be, I'm at work, so I'm in and out of the office all day.

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Are you asking me to join you?

Katie says:
maybe so

Francisco d'Anconia says:
Showering with someone sounds like an awesome idea, but the reality is it usually ends with me falling on my ass

Francisco d'Anconia says:
plus girls like to hog the water, which makes me cold

Katie says:
wow.. that really sucks.. lol

Katie says:
oh gosh i love to hog the water... lol

Katie says:
its great

Francisco d'Anconia says:
you're such a girl

Katie says:
you know it

Katie says:
ill brb

[antivisual]

I'm new here, but from the conversation it seems she is interested in you. I wouldn't stress from her not messaging back, she probably just had something come up and didn't get a chance to get back to her computer.

[reck1ess]

im new to this too but the conversation seems one sided. she mostly answer with "yes", "that's true", etc. and some of the advices she give sounds a little fortune cookieish.

[Finesse]

Too many closed ended questions, not enough open ended questions.

[dubya]

Dude WF...

Alright, I totally suck for having to work. Next time I'm calling in sick. My friend ranted on the phone to me for a whole hour telling me how tight your game was. He would NOT shut up. I should have been there. Crap, and I know one of the hostestes at Copelands. She's in one of my classes. Damn.