My community-hating friend called me. He dispises what we do, and thinks it's very manipulative.
He told me about how he went to a Strip club with 2 lesbian friends, one dressed as a guy (Lesibans love him...though some take advantage of him, IMO). He asked me if I saw the epposide of the PU artist where one of their missions was to get a stripper's phone number...
it was obvious he was bragging a lil... He got this stipper's phone number and 5 days later she called him wondering why he hadn't called her.
I explained to him exactly why he got her attracted. He has social proof, he was non-judgemental of her morals, and when she started touching him he told her to back off and they should get to know each other first.
I asked him how many other guys have ever told her something like that...and then explained how that raised his value in her eyes. He is starting to see why these tactics work.
This is good, I think community skills would really help him out. He's a great guy, and these skills would let him demonstrate that to any woman he wants to meet.
Westfall

