Dallas PUA

what r the do's and donts of phone game?

That's a big question. I'm not a pro, but I have a couple basic things that I think are good.

One, is call and chat, and don't ask her out the first time. Keep it under 10 or 15 minutes. If she asks what you're doing, say you're busy and that you're not sure what your schedule is going to look like this week. Sometimes I have told a girl I would call on a certain day and we'll see. Basically I'm telling her that I will call and ask her out on that day.

The other is, if you ask her out and she says she's busy, don't counter-propose a different day because it comes off as very needy. If she counter-offers a different time, then you can accept, but if not, wait at least one or two days before asking again.

Personally phone game isn't the best way to go anymore, not with the progressed use of text messaging.

-phoenix

Phoenix, do you have any tips for text game? This is an area I need to improve upon

WF

1) Always end the convo first.....

2) If you are using text.... spell things out... Do NOT use "Ur sooo hott."

3) Be witty.

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4) Im drunk so ill have to re-read this in the morning......

Phone game is giving way to text game, IMO. It is much easier to get a girl to return a text than to get her to return a call. I agree with Finesse about ending the conversation first. I just talked to a girl last night and she was driving and talking to somebody else. She asked me to call her back in 10 minutes. I said, "no, I just wanted to say hi. I'll call you some other time." We have a day2 set up for Saturday, so I know I'll talk to her again. Let her get used to you being a part of her life. Check in now and then just to say hi or tell her a funny story, and then say you have to go. If you call and get her voice mail, leave a random message that will compell her to call you back. "What was that you were saying about turkey burgers?"

In text game:
1. Use nicknames.
2. Use call-back humor.
3. Be random and fun.
4. Send a picture of yourself or something you see. "This is a lizard I found sitting on the hood of my car."
5. When you send a text to your wing telling him where and when you're going to meet, "accidentally" send it to a couple of girls.
6. Tell her to send you a picture. For example, send the following text to every girl in your contacts tonight: "Let's see your costume."

Send them this text, " I want to touch your bum "

Zit drivez zeh womenz crazy! For the ladies, eh! For the ladies!

Text game is pretty hard for me. There are times in the day when I know I shouldn't text a girl but I'm totally bored with nothing to do, so I do it. Which is BAD. (I know) I've considered going somewhere and leaving my phone at home, but you don't always have something to do. If all else, I'm learning self-control slowly..Very slowly..

Finesse wrote:4) Im drunk so ill have to re-read this in the morning......

Ive re-read this.... and that is all I have to say about that.