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Sticking points

PostPosted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 12:13 am
by TheScientist
My philosophy is that I work on what needs improvement.

Here's what's wrong with my game:
(1) I approach when it's easy for me.
(2) I drink (too much) in night game.
(3) I don't escalate in day game.

My solution to each of these issues is straightforward:
(1) Set an intention to approach sets where I perceive a limitation.
(2) Set a drink limit before going out.
(3) Escalate in day game the same way I learned to escalate in night game ... (a) act first and THEN callibrate to the response instead of trying to predict the response, (b) just do it, and (c) just do it.

PostPosted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 9:17 am
by Finesse
I used to have number 2 as a problem. So what helped for me is not taking any credit cards, only cash, and I would only take like $20 bucks tops. Sometimes only like $10.

Hope that helps

PostPosted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 12:46 pm
by realdice
1.) I find excuses not to approach.
2.) I number close to quickly.
3.) I rarely put in enough effort and energy.