Dallas PUA

"Surrounding yourself with high-energy guys that ooze positive energy. The mood of the group has a huge impact. Get some seasoned PUAs together and the group just oozes cool-ness. And when you have that vibe going, girls just gravitate toward your group. The opposite is also true. It is tough when you have a couple of guys just standing and observing. Pick your wingman wisely."

- Mojo

I have friends that I've known for quite some time now (2-3+ years) and we always go out to the same clubs/bars or whatever on weekends. It was the same shit every weekend (go to the club/bar, walk around, stand around doing nothing, getting drunk) and quite frankly I am glad to have found this "Art". If only I knew of this earlier.

Anyway, I have a select few of friends that enjoy this "Art" as well, but the others refuse to accept and/or conform to it. Believing that "there is nothing wrong with my game" attitude. I mean wow are they that naive? Do they not see themselves at a club being the typical AFC? It's ridiculous.

It has come to a point where these AFC's have been dead weight wherever we go. They follow us like a flock of sheep and bring the whole energy down. Well maybe you're thinking "at least hes got a leader of men trait that could be a DHV!". Its not great being a leader of AFC's.

Now, the dilemma is, these guys are still my friends and I've known them for so long so I cannot just stop hanging out with them that would be cold. Some other suggestions that me and my fellow PUA's in training came up with was:

1) Sarging on an off-night (weekday), and hang out with them on weekends
2) Drift away from them slowly. This game is about life afterall, and if there are friends that are constantly "bringing me down", there is not going to be a great outlook in the future
3) Attempt to convert. Like an ultimatum. Either conform or don't come out.

I would like to hear all your opinions on this and I'm pretty sure some of you are in the same situation as well. Give me some input. Some insight!

- West

Your suggestion of sarging on an off night? why not flip that, I was in the same boat as you about 3 months ago, so I needed a solution, hang out with my non pua friends during the week (mon-thur) and sarge fri-sun. The beauty of this is I can invite the girls from the weekend out during the week with us, they meet these guys and almost always respond with something like "your friends are really nice guys" and I've never once had my friends "scare" any girl away.

Maybe you just need to talk to them about it and lay some ground rules down before you go out. If they see the process work first hand they are more than likely to become believers.

My $.02